So  lei-lani watch a lot of Jeopardy. Ken Jennings will never be an Alex Trebek, but the kid's got some class to him. Anyway, we're watching the show a few weeks ago. (Some fool on Youtube manages to get "pre-show" tapes and i dunno how he does it...but if i ever walk into a bar and Jeopardy is on the TV, Im gonna make a LOT of money on bets)

So yeah, we're watching this one guy... with a Hitler haircut... i mean, there was just no other way to describe it, if he had the crazy mustache he could pass for a lookalike, thats how wild that hair was... and we knew it was a combover but we didnt care, because we were making wisecracks and comments every time he answered a question... and we were having fun mocking the hell out of him..................................

Well....... apparently a lot of people were. And not privately in their own homes, they were doing it on Facebook and Twitter and making this poor man feel awful... so bad, in fact, he ghosted himself off Twitter... thats how bad he felt.

and im sitting here telling Lani, "holy SHIT... well, we were mocking him too, he looked just like Hitler" and Lani sighs and says, "yes but we kept it to ourselves............................."

and this little light suddenly came on in my head and i thought....we would NEVER do something like that, never poke fun at someone out on the world stage so everyone could see it.... never Tweet out what we were thinking like that and hurt someone's feelings... and we'd wonder why the FUCK.... are people doing that in public?

and i get it, people are doing it to feel important and famous, maybe hopefully their post or Tweet gains attention and a follower or three, I get it.............................................

i guess i have a real hard time understanding why...its damned hard enough to be a real person these days and i dont understand for the life of me why the fuck your "virtual" you is so fucking important.....

Fuck the 'net.