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There's isn't much to say about FA that hasn't been said.
Idk why I'm writing this, the first word I think of is Greif.
I'm Grieving, been doing that as of late. But exactly what am I grieving for? Honestly, I joined this fandom through abdl. Sort of used furry as a vehicle to explore my gender and sexuality. I didn't have the space to do that Irl or access or means. But it became my home, it became a safe space of freedom of expression.
Yes, there's always been problems with this fandom like all other ones. But now it's like, the place that has given me self-expression, identity, and a safe space has been attacked again and again. I don't understand this infighting. The desire to prove to people that we're normal like everyone else. When in reality we aren't.
**before I go any further, my stance hasn't chang. If you're a predator who harm living things you can kick rocks: Racists and Fascist included.**
*** It is your job to curate your own internet experience and being anti-kink to the point of harassment and call out posts makes you a cop. No matter how much sanitation you do will never be enough for people that hate us. As long as its two consenting adults it's none of my business. TO PRESERVE MY PEACE OF MIND!!! I'm sticking to that rule it's exhausting having to worry about every little thing. Idc for your problematic taste, I'll block and keep it pushing, you do the same. ***
We never where, and people will see this very queer space as a target because in the end, we choose happiness over whatever bullshit they were offering. We chose to create and craft a new identity instead of accepting what society said was expected for us. And that made us punk. But maybe I have had rose colored glasses all this time. I'm just tired. No person's interest or kink is better than anyone else and yet here we are trying to have some moral superiority over one another. "Oh, I may like vore but at least I'm not a candy guro, or at least I'm not a babyfur"
Like it doesn't matter. The outside world sees us as deviants, politicians are trying to get us on the chopping block for some odd reason, and these rules. They make no sense. A blacklist would've been a better idea. It's the hypocrisy for me that does it.
Finally, I am a believer that art itself is a tool of communication.
The painting invokes whatever response that your subconscious is trying to tell you. Instead of attacking that painting why don't you ask that question why? and sit with it. Now some shit is obviously design to harm. But diapers? really? if it makes you uncomfortable then block.
MY main issue is that the rules are hypocritical, and I'm tired of being at the whims of some moderator who has some holier than thou attitude because furry animals wearing diapers and taking a nap (or worse) is an issue for them. I have my fair share of issues. But I'm choosing to try and understand them or at best curate my experience by blocking.
This goes without saying. If folks in my community has done some heinous shit like hurting minors, children, animals, spouses then it's on sight. This place isn't a safe space for you.
Idk why I'm writing this, the first word I think of is Greif.
I'm Grieving, been doing that as of late. But exactly what am I grieving for? Honestly, I joined this fandom through abdl. Sort of used furry as a vehicle to explore my gender and sexuality. I didn't have the space to do that Irl or access or means. But it became my home, it became a safe space of freedom of expression.
Yes, there's always been problems with this fandom like all other ones. But now it's like, the place that has given me self-expression, identity, and a safe space has been attacked again and again. I don't understand this infighting. The desire to prove to people that we're normal like everyone else. When in reality we aren't.
**before I go any further, my stance hasn't chang. If you're a predator who harm living things you can kick rocks: Racists and Fascist included.**
*** It is your job to curate your own internet experience and being anti-kink to the point of harassment and call out posts makes you a cop. No matter how much sanitation you do will never be enough for people that hate us. As long as its two consenting adults it's none of my business. TO PRESERVE MY PEACE OF MIND!!! I'm sticking to that rule it's exhausting having to worry about every little thing. Idc for your problematic taste, I'll block and keep it pushing, you do the same. ***
We never where, and people will see this very queer space as a target because in the end, we choose happiness over whatever bullshit they were offering. We chose to create and craft a new identity instead of accepting what society said was expected for us. And that made us punk. But maybe I have had rose colored glasses all this time. I'm just tired. No person's interest or kink is better than anyone else and yet here we are trying to have some moral superiority over one another. "Oh, I may like vore but at least I'm not a candy guro, or at least I'm not a babyfur"
Like it doesn't matter. The outside world sees us as deviants, politicians are trying to get us on the chopping block for some odd reason, and these rules. They make no sense. A blacklist would've been a better idea. It's the hypocrisy for me that does it.
Finally, I am a believer that art itself is a tool of communication.
The painting invokes whatever response that your subconscious is trying to tell you. Instead of attacking that painting why don't you ask that question why? and sit with it. Now some shit is obviously design to harm. But diapers? really? if it makes you uncomfortable then block.
MY main issue is that the rules are hypocritical, and I'm tired of being at the whims of some moderator who has some holier than thou attitude because furry animals wearing diapers and taking a nap (or worse) is an issue for them. I have my fair share of issues. But I'm choosing to try and understand them or at best curate my experience by blocking.
This goes without saying. If folks in my community has done some heinous shit like hurting minors, children, animals, spouses then it's on sight. This place isn't a safe space for you.
