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Even if it Did Remember, it Wouldn't Care
2 years ago
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Multiple others approached me to ask why. "Why have they been acting like this?"
That's the thing, they don't care. They happily threw away all of their close relationships on a whim. They don't look back, they don't want to care. They don't want consequences for how they act and treat people. Once someone realizes they are being used, they are cast aside. No time to feel regret over what you've done, only time for new exciting infatuation after inatuation. I even have chat logs from those others confirming it all. How the moment they are upset they are shown the door and that's the end of it. I can't imagine treating people like their friendship is so meaningless.
That's the thing, they don't care. They happily threw away all of their close relationships on a whim. They don't look back, they don't want to care. They don't want consequences for how they act and treat people. Once someone realizes they are being used, they are cast aside. No time to feel regret over what you've done, only time for new exciting infatuation after inatuation. I even have chat logs from those others confirming it all. How the moment they are upset they are shown the door and that's the end of it. I can't imagine treating people like their friendship is so meaningless.
This video or other ones like it may help you understand the psychological issues that the person might have causing their behavior and potentially help you move on. (Unless I'm totally off base)
https://youtu.be/jTkBgFOqQ5c
Sucks though it's a lonely world out there especially if you're strange like we all tend to be. Hope that you can heal.
I'm sorry someone really hurt you in such a impactful way, sometimes these things just have to take there time to process. Esp grief! Just try to remember to be kind to yourself. I don't know if they were just a friend or something more, both hurt the same tbh.