Dear all Female haters
16 years ago
General
Fight her all you want you'll never win
Couldn't we just once leave her in bed
Let the dry air cut her happy throat
Hide her heart and lose her happy head
I've noticed a general dislike for women coming from this site lots of pms jokes, comments bitching about women or quotes like"This would be better if it wasn't a female" I'm also on a man hate kick right now just because of some of the comments people have made to or around me.Our I'm not a feminist by any means I believe in equality, but it seems so very often the fact I am a woman is held against me. Being referred to as unstable, just because every month I may get alittle moody.
I found something very interesting in a book I'd like to share. The whole phrase is from the book Celtic Women's Spirituality by Edain McCoy.
"Our ability to function in the world has been called into question as well. In many cases we hae been deemed to hysterical and emotionally unstable to hold positions of responsibility. Yet studies show that it is men who are right brain oriented and the right half of the brain is the hemisphere that rules the emotion side of human behavior. Women tend to be ruled by the left brain, the hemisphere of logic and reason. Women also have more connectors between the two halves, a substance known as corpus callosum, which allows a greater exchange of information between the two spheres. Think about it. When was the last time you hear a report on the evening news about women whose bar fight got out of hand to the point they resorted to shooting each other? When is the last time you heard about a woman so upset over the breakup of her marriage that she killed her husband, her kids, and then herself? When is the last time you heard about a woman serial killer, or pedophile, or rapist? (It does happen but think in numbers about which sex does it more?)
Our natural cycles, the very cycles that enable human life to continue, have often been blamed for our supposed irrationality. Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) takes a lot of bashing in the media. It is true that many women become more aggressive during this period, though they are rarely out of control. What they are is under the influence of the male hormone testosterone which, although it remains only in small quantities, increases during the premenstrual phase. Modern medicine has documented the male phenomenon know as the "testosterone rage," a violently irrational outburst caused by sharp escalations in this hormones production, usually due to the ingestion of bulk-building steroid drugs. Testosterone increases aggressiveness. Testosterone is the defining male hormone, as estrogen is the defining female one. Therefore, any PMS symptoms that are perceived as unstable are due to the fact that women act more like men during this phase than at any other time in their cycles. Aggressive behavior in men is applauded-in women it is feared."
So think of that the next time your nagging about your girlfriend or spouses behavior during her time of the month, she's just acting more like a man :|
If anyone is unstable and should be ridiculed for something they can't help it defiantly should be the males of our society.
I found something very interesting in a book I'd like to share. The whole phrase is from the book Celtic Women's Spirituality by Edain McCoy.
"Our ability to function in the world has been called into question as well. In many cases we hae been deemed to hysterical and emotionally unstable to hold positions of responsibility. Yet studies show that it is men who are right brain oriented and the right half of the brain is the hemisphere that rules the emotion side of human behavior. Women tend to be ruled by the left brain, the hemisphere of logic and reason. Women also have more connectors between the two halves, a substance known as corpus callosum, which allows a greater exchange of information between the two spheres. Think about it. When was the last time you hear a report on the evening news about women whose bar fight got out of hand to the point they resorted to shooting each other? When is the last time you heard about a woman so upset over the breakup of her marriage that she killed her husband, her kids, and then herself? When is the last time you heard about a woman serial killer, or pedophile, or rapist? (It does happen but think in numbers about which sex does it more?)
Our natural cycles, the very cycles that enable human life to continue, have often been blamed for our supposed irrationality. Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) takes a lot of bashing in the media. It is true that many women become more aggressive during this period, though they are rarely out of control. What they are is under the influence of the male hormone testosterone which, although it remains only in small quantities, increases during the premenstrual phase. Modern medicine has documented the male phenomenon know as the "testosterone rage," a violently irrational outburst caused by sharp escalations in this hormones production, usually due to the ingestion of bulk-building steroid drugs. Testosterone increases aggressiveness. Testosterone is the defining male hormone, as estrogen is the defining female one. Therefore, any PMS symptoms that are perceived as unstable are due to the fact that women act more like men during this phase than at any other time in their cycles. Aggressive behavior in men is applauded-in women it is feared."
So think of that the next time your nagging about your girlfriend or spouses behavior during her time of the month, she's just acting more like a man :|
If anyone is unstable and should be ridiculed for something they can't help it defiantly should be the males of our society.
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Cause it's not right, and it's still a pretty big issue, people telling me I can't do things because I'm a woman, getting turned down from jobs, and even in the furry community getting ridiculed for being something I couldn't help being.
Yeah, there are plenty of times where I wonder know if I haven't gotten a job because of that... or because Im not some knock-out slut... *knocks rapidly on wood* and thankful that I personally haven't received any bashing on FA for being a woman or drawing them, but I HAVE seen it and its extremely upsetting :< As many as there are gay men there are the same if not MORE women... at least from my counting...
... Heres a thought... maybe all the women artists out there that draw gay art should go on strike (whether gay art is something they enjoy or they like doing it for the fans) but maybe theyd change their tune real quick... (especially after seeing FinneganHound's comments here... I am watching TheWielder because at least at first I could appreciate a talented artist... I somehow missed that journal... :<)
The sad part is I've found is most of the people bashing on women are gay men in this community, which makes no scence. It's like just because you don't like something doesn't mean you should hate on it.
Lawd knows I'm sick of seeing dicks on everything but I don't go to people pages and post "this picture would be better without the penis" If I was an e-drama starter I would though x)
Which I really loved when Vera and Evenfall have been trying to pimp out more lesbian arts and why the idea of "pegging" can be so much more... empowering... maybe not the word I am looking for, but I am sure you get the idea ;3 Probably one of the main reasons that I draw more hermaphrodites than actual men... because then at least there is still the majority of a feminine aspect. I haven't been totally driven to hate men... but... idk... Is chivalry really dead?
It's not a laughing matter its a problem.
Drama + gallery full of penis = furry love
But the plus side to this is when your a dramamongler eventually you'll get banned, and eventually everyone will hate you c: so it's just a waiting game with that one.
Thanks for being one of the nice guys :3
Id assume from straight men who fear women or think they should have power over them. Gay men women bashing? wtf....
But its not like sexual orientation makes one any less an asshole.
On the greater issue you may enjoy this
http://pseudo-manitou.deviantart.co.....ting-143002510
it touches on it nicely.
As a woman who was severely mentally, physically, and sexually abused by an exboyfriend sometimes I just can't help but wince with some of the things people say.
And that image is awesome, and also so very true.
I suppose it stems more from women being unable to handle testosterone, which, rather you want to believe it or not, is more normal and natural than you or me, rather than it being a 'poison.' ... but whatever. I understand this to just be retaliation. Good show. *eyerolls*
So thanks for doing that, someones always gotta say something.
This wasn't directed at anything it's just something that personally made me feel better about all the times the fact that I'm a female was held against me. Not some personal vendetta against anyone.
Nowhere in any of that did I say women don't do anything like murder, rape, or get aggressive, it does happen but statistically more serial killers, rapists, pedophiles, among other crimes that are committed are by males. I never said it didn't happen, just making a statement that as a whole women tend to be more level headed in there day to day lifes. And I'm not saying all men are like that either.
Having been in a relationship with a man who treated me less than dirt, and let me know on a daily basis that I was less then dirt, it's just something that made me feel alittle better about myself and the men who think that way. As well I was sharing it with other women who have had similar experiences so they could perhaps feel better too.
It made me feel better about myself and I wanted to share it with others. But I guess thats a bad thing :|
*eyerolls*
Teehee.