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2 years ago
The stalking and harassment is still going on. I noticed my stalker was trying to commission art of stolen characters as he often does, and reported it - he's upset I'm "stopping him from getting art", and is now spreading things trying to say I'm a "pedo and zoophile". If you guys saw characters stolen, I'd expect any artist to report that kind of thing, it's just disrespectful.
The pedo accusation in particular is hilarious considering this guy practically used grooming tactics on me when I was well younger and still talking to him. He knew I had a shitty home life and wanted out. He used that against me and tried to say if I dated him he'd take me to America and we'd have a cute farm life and live happily ever after or whatever. He started me off drawing innocent things for him (buttering me up saying my stuff was awesome and he wanted to use it for his game project which didn't even exist) then gradually over time wanted more and more porn, then pics of us together. Basically, he loved pushing boundaries. I'm SO glad my gut told me to keep turning him down.
I really, really wish this guy wasn't in the US because I would have done something legally about this forever ago. It really sucks waking up and worrying what weird stuff he's spreading. (I know it's not just me, either - there's a tonne of other artists I've seen post about this guy, but for some reason there's never properly been a good beware page to actually refer to, I'm guessing because of him constantly getting banned)
I literally woke up to a message from him on New Years day. Go spend time with your friends and family... It's so creepy
Understandably, my anxiety is through the roof needing to wake up to this. I hope 2024 is the year he can go away. It's been really stressing me out :(
I know realistically talking about it makes creeps double down. But I want to get ahead of him each time he tries this stuff - he's bad for messaging random people, spamming folks pages and Impersonating me and my partner even while spreading stuff.
The pedo accusation in particular is hilarious considering this guy practically used grooming tactics on me when I was well younger and still talking to him. He knew I had a shitty home life and wanted out. He used that against me and tried to say if I dated him he'd take me to America and we'd have a cute farm life and live happily ever after or whatever. He started me off drawing innocent things for him (buttering me up saying my stuff was awesome and he wanted to use it for his game project which didn't even exist) then gradually over time wanted more and more porn, then pics of us together. Basically, he loved pushing boundaries. I'm SO glad my gut told me to keep turning him down.
I really, really wish this guy wasn't in the US because I would have done something legally about this forever ago. It really sucks waking up and worrying what weird stuff he's spreading. (I know it's not just me, either - there's a tonne of other artists I've seen post about this guy, but for some reason there's never properly been a good beware page to actually refer to, I'm guessing because of him constantly getting banned)
I literally woke up to a message from him on New Years day. Go spend time with your friends and family... It's so creepy
Understandably, my anxiety is through the roof needing to wake up to this. I hope 2024 is the year he can go away. It's been really stressing me out :(
I know realistically talking about it makes creeps double down. But I want to get ahead of him each time he tries this stuff - he's bad for messaging random people, spamming folks pages and Impersonating me and my partner even while spreading stuff.
I reached out to a stalking support team irl a few months ago - Sadly, they pretty much told me there was nothing they could do since he was in the US. (But told me to 'watch out for a new legislation that's being introduced' which I highly doubt that's gonna do much, as reading up on it, it seems more related to internet safety via people seeing things that are harmful and what not like blocking kids from seeing innappropiate content, and again, being UK based only).
He posted a massive rant about me months ago, I ignored it as usual because I can't be bothered with him. He didn't like my lack of response and started resending me the link /on new years day/. That alone tells me that instead of spending time with family and friends he was just messing with internet people who want nothing to do with him, and that's seriously an unhealthy obsession.
The only time stuff like that I say that is being 'pedoish' is when, say, creeps use characters from kids media to get close to kids and expose them to nsfw content they shouldn't be seeing. THAT is nasty. Consenting adults doing weird stuff in the privacy of their own home is something I'll never judge because I know I'm a fellow weirdo, too :P (As is any furry to outsiders eyes, so it's funny to me that we can be so judgey at times)
Guy was too clingy… i simply block him… all i heard is he is still fine… but he continues being the same clingy and manipulative guy.
Bottom line, I hope whatever happens to you, will be solve and in the most peaceful way possible. I would not believe a single word of what such a guy says…
Remember, you are the person you wish to be and you a wonderful person. :) do your best. :)
So sorry you've had something similar. I hope that person has left you alone now and you have other good friends around 💖
(I see your tele messages, but I'm in bed feeling like a zombie right now barely awake. I'll reply when my brain is less foggy :3)
I just missed you a lot and i wanted to make sure you were fine. I apologize for the spam ;_;
I for me i left hat guy for good, i would not worry about him anymore.