That's right folks, your pal Gordy has some been doing some serious soul-searching lately. I've mentioned to some furs already that my lack of updates in the past few months were due to health problems. (I'll spare you the nitty-gritty, but it was a combination of physical and mental stuff that really did a number on me). One thing I haven't been public about yet is one of the big things I've been struggling with:

After many months of grappling, I've finally come to accept the fact that I am femme non-binary. Basically, I don't adhere to either gender, but I lean WAY more heavily towards female.

It's been a lot to come to terms with. For many, many years I was deeply uncomfortable with being labelled a man & with the expectations placed on me by that label. It meant that I had to hide or otherwise downplay who I've really been for so long, never being 100% true to myself. Well, that's over now.

The last few weeks especially have been particularly hard, basically requiring me to get to know myself all over again. It's been difficult, but I'm getting there. For the first time I feel like I can be the person I truly am. My confidence is rising, I'm taking much better care of myself, I'm wearing more effeminate clothes and doing my nails / makeup, and as a result I'm feeling more sociable and open. This is tremendous moment in my life and I'm ready to embrace it.

So what will be changing around here? TBH not much! Your pal Gordy isn't going anywhere, peddling smut for you wonderful freaks is the best job ever . You're my people and I love you all Hell, I probably won't even redesign my sona, Gordy (at least not anytime soon). I've gotten quite attached to that rotten, scrawny little brat X3

What will change is that from now on my pronouns are either they/them or she/her. As long as furs respect that, everything will be hunky-dory.

Anyways, sorry for the rambly post, I just wanted to get this all out there. I still have a ways to go on my journey, but being out and proud is an important step. Thanks for bearing with me, and thanks for being such a positive community that I can bear my soul to you all like this. And an extra-special thanks to my wonderful hubby who loves me no matter what and makes me so happy I love you, my G.O.A.T. !

That's all for now,

Cheers, my lovelies!

~Gordian

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