I don't really fit in anywhere
a year ago
After years of analysis and study, after decades of trying to find a niche for me that I fit in, I don't fit anywhere.
I've had a few people questioning why I even upload my stuff when it's not visual art. Some actually being offensive about it, stating it's a waste of time.
I'm a trauma filled pile of garbage. This pushes people away, but I cannot win, because I've been beat up and abused so many times, my instincts kick in and I get paranoid. I have therapy, but it cannot stop reflexes from being harmed so much.
I am not ready for the real world, and I don't think I ever will be.
I'm sorry for the negativity. I'm sorry for hurting anyone without meaning to. I'm sorry for lying about what i enjoy just to keep friends. I'm sorry for being broken and abused. I'm sorry that I can't fit in anywhere.
I don't fit in anywhere. I'm just a lonely asshole who has too much depression to act normal.
The masks no longer work.
I'm sorry.
I've had a few people questioning why I even upload my stuff when it's not visual art. Some actually being offensive about it, stating it's a waste of time.
I'm a trauma filled pile of garbage. This pushes people away, but I cannot win, because I've been beat up and abused so many times, my instincts kick in and I get paranoid. I have therapy, but it cannot stop reflexes from being harmed so much.
I am not ready for the real world, and I don't think I ever will be.
I'm sorry for the negativity. I'm sorry for hurting anyone without meaning to. I'm sorry for lying about what i enjoy just to keep friends. I'm sorry for being broken and abused. I'm sorry that I can't fit in anywhere.
I don't fit in anywhere. I'm just a lonely asshole who has too much depression to act normal.
The masks no longer work.
I'm sorry.
Don't put yourself down.
For what it's worth, I hope one day you find your tribe.
it's as if the world and you are on different frequency, isn't it, trying to communicate but it seems somehow mute, and the other way around too. The human world seems insane and overwhelming. Even those who are nice to be with seem unable to really get through into the lonely core.
You cannot be blamed for negativity, such sense of isolation is maddening, I know from experience. I figured, the masks lead me into loneliness because the world is deceived by me, I should give up on looking for my place, as it doesn't exist - so I must create it, even if it's very difficult. The tasks seem unbelievable and hard to reach, but there isn't really any other way I can see.
I can't be sure that it will work but it makes sense to me, to shed the masks with hope that exposing the truth will bring one closer to the rightful spot with the right people and circumstances, of course it will cut off many redundant pieces of life as well, what can burn must burn but wisdom is necessary to tell which is which - what to let go of and what to cultivate.
Did we get to choose to end up like this? in this hole far away from the sun
Do not accept your fault, I know it's ruinous to feel like this, like burden and something unintentional - a mistake, but it is not your fault, because that's how the insane world tries to break you
Good luck with everything. Also in my opinion you aren't an asshole at all. I never saw you write completely anything that would make me think you are one and if you were an asshole it would come out at some point.
The fact that you care is in an of itself proof that you're far from an asshole.
Depression for sure is a selfish disease, it makes you hyper aware of yourself which is easily interpreted as narcissistic or uncaring. But the pain becomes a bit of an echo chamber that gets louder and louder to you and it's hard for everyone else to understand. Thank you for expressing your pain and giving us a chance to respond to it.
FA is one of the few art sites which allow written word submissions. (I believe SoFurry is the other, possibly DA, but with their issues, not sure how many do anymore.) It's by design that it did, all that time ago. Use it for that without concern for those who'd say not to bother. Upload for your own enjoyment if nobody else's.
Feel better soon, little robot creature!