This is why I stopped... -- HikariShade's Journal -- Fur Affinity [dot] net

This is why I stopped...

16 years ago

This is why I stopped playing Furcadia... remind me why I went back?

12/11/09 19:48:11 E: [Draw me a portrait. #SB]
12/11/09 19:48:19 Hikari Shade: o.O
12/11/09 19:48:21 E: er a cion.
12/11/09 19:48:23 E: icon.
12/11/09 19:48:26 E: http://www.furaffinity.net/full/3128685/
12/11/09 19:48:29 Hikari Shade: Aaah
12/11/09 19:48:30 E: I like the way you do things.
12/11/09 19:48:39 Hikari Shade: Pay me $10 and I will XP
12/11/09 19:48:43 E: Negative.
12/11/09 19:48:48 Hikari Shade: lol
12/11/09 19:48:51 Hikari Shade: Sorry
12/11/09 19:48:52 E: We're friends, you should draw it for me for free. :P
12/11/09 19:48:56 Hikari Shade: Im doing these for Christmas money.
12/11/09 19:49:11 Hikari Shade: I literally have nothing for Christmas this year
12/11/09 19:49:11 E: and I'm saving for vacation, so GG.
12/11/09 19:50:25 Hikari Shade: Im hoping to get enough money to buy my husband a Foxen for life for Christmas *sigh* Dunno if Ill be able to though
12/11/09 19:52:03 E: Lawl@buying pixel art in a game.
12/11/09 19:52:17 E: buy him something more substantial, imo.
12/11/09 19:52:47 Hikari Shade: How is buying art in a game any diffrent then buying any other art online?
12/11/09 19:53:12 E: I'm talking about buy something in real life.
12/11/09 19:53:14 E: Not on some game.
12/11/09 19:53:17 Hikari Shade: And I would love to, but I have no way to pull the money off my paypal without jumping through hoops and losing a good chunk of it to transfer fee's
12/11/09 19:53:21 Hikari Shade: Cant.
12/11/09 19:53:28 E: Bullcrap.
12/11/09 19:53:41 E: thats what bank accounts are for. <.<
12/11/09 19:53:59 Hikari Shade: Please dont tell me its bullcrap when I know its not. I know the situation and you do not.
12/11/09 19:54:07 Hikari Shade: My account is American. I am living in Canada
12/11/09 19:54:14 E: Haha, you're a Canadian?
12/11/09 19:54:19 Hikari Shade: my husbands bank has issues with paypal, believe me we have tried
12/11/09 19:54:22 Hikari Shade: my husband is
12/11/09 19:54:39 E: I'm sorry but that makes my sides hurt with laughter.
12/11/09 19:54:47 Hikari Shade: *flattens ears*
12/11/09 19:55:06 E: Anyway, have fun with that. *snickers*
12/11/09 19:56:26 Hikari Shade: You know what, Im done talking to you. I dont like talking to rude people, especially ones who make assumptions about things they dont know about.

Things done wrong here.

1) Demanding free art. While I do art for friends free sometimes, and with close friends we even joke about free art, something about his tone didnt sit right with me, especially sense Ive only spoken with this person a few times, and never in depth except on the topic of kitsune lore.

2) Assuming he knows what situation I have with my paypal and the issues we have getting money off of it (just ask

and

about the fun we have to have to get our money off online). And just just assuming, but doing so in a rude way.

3) Whenever I say "flattens ears", people thats a warning. Seriously. Just like with an animal, that means your treading dangerous waters and to back off. Maybe he didn't know that, but even so... Use common sense.

4) Laughing at or insulting my husbands nationality, or my own, or anyone else's. It doesn't matter what country or where you come from. People should be judged for themselves, not their nationality. Yes, Ive made my share of jokes about the nationality of my friends. But its always in jest, and they know that. They know I dont see them as a nationality but as a person, and their nationality is just a flavoring on top of the main dish.

I went back to furcadia for a friend, he missed a dream he used to go to that closed down, and I happened to be one of the original creators of said dream and had a copy of it, actualy I had an improved version of the dream he had missed. Ive been uploading it for about the last month now. I havent strayed too much from my dream, and as a gift for my husband, I was going to buy him a ferin foxen for life for christmas, since they have a good sale going on, and its about the only avatar that might tempt him to get back on furc and keep some company with me. And its one of the few things I can buy online that I know he would enjoy and that I could afford. Hence why I have been doing the icons, to save up for it.

So yeah.. Im a little annoyed right now... *is done ranting*

24 Comments

SnowRoseRivenstar ~snowroserivenstar

Digital Artist

16 years ago

Yup. Big reason I cut Furc off as well.

HikariShade ~hikarishade

Anthro Artist

16 years ago

Furc can still have some good people there.. And I thought I would pull it up again to see about getting some good roleplay, as its hard to find decent RP on SL as its so big and its spread out so few and far between. *sighs*

Skepsisfox ~skepsisfox

16 years ago

Sorry for being blunt but: What a dick.

That is all. That would have been an auto-ignore for me, hon. Don't worry about it. XD

HikariShade ~hikarishade

Anthro Artist

16 years ago

Well he seemed okay at first... Talked mostly about kitsune, but his know it all additude started to really show through in the last conversation we had, and then he did this... so.. yeah, ignore time. I try and give people a chance. But if they get to annoying Ill ignore them, or just stop talking to them all together.

Phoenixrage16 ~phoenixrage16

Author of Fallen Kingdoms of B.

16 years ago

Demanding free art? Jesus -_-... you want free art, you do it YOURSELF; that's the way it works. I know I've gotten a couple of free pics from you, but you know the backstory behind those at least. THIS guy was just trying to take advantage of your artistic talents. True friends don't do that.

LaurenRivers ~laurenrivers

Writer

16 years ago

You don't demand free ANYTHING. If it's free, you have no right to complain if they take a long time or say no. What GALL this guy has.

Meekurabu ~meekurabu

Photographer

16 years ago

I quit furc...because.....I really don't know why...x.x I guess since Dia was here with me I didn't need it to talk to her anymore...?

Meekurabu ~meekurabu

Photographer

16 years ago

Well...that and possibly the fact that half of my RP friends were not out for RP and actually wanted me...then when they found out Dia came to visit me, they walked away and it kinda made things boring xD

dotter ~dotter

Writer

16 years ago

T'is true, money has beaten a regular path to the foxies through me. And I'll help money get to you and Keichi as long as I can, hun. nuzzle 'Fraid I have to agree with Skepsisfox, that guy's a dick! I'm sorry his sides hurt from laughing at Canada, too and I hope to never meet him. Jeeze!

Mikau ~mikau

Watcher

16 years ago

I'm on Furcadia on a regular basis once again, and if I ever come across this head dick, I'm gonna fucking chew him out for being an absolute ass to you. You're my friend, and I always like to defend my friends.

I'd love to toss $10 your way for an icon, that's for damn sure.

HikariShade ~hikarishade

Anthro Artist

16 years ago

My dreams up and running in Furn, under the name Kitsuhana. ^.~

Mikau ~mikau

Watcher

16 years ago

Cool! What's it about?

HikariShade ~hikarishade

Anthro Artist

16 years ago

http://kitsuhana.webs.com/

Mikau ~mikau

Watcher

16 years ago

Oh neat. I've seen that dream portal before when it was called AKP at the time.

AEthian ~aethian

Traditional Artist

16 years ago

Ah I've used to go on Furc, but then again, When people just wanted to RP with me, I started doing it right off of YIM, or in IRC based rooms.

But anyway, you'll find people like that no matter where you go. Person appeared almost Troll like in my opinion.

Shogin ~shogin

Traditional Artist

16 years ago

I really hate rude people as well, they can ruin an experience to anything. I was on Furcadia for a very short time. Its like rudeness seems to find that place very easily.

*snugs a Hikari*

LaurenRivers ~laurenrivers

Writer

16 years ago

Oy, this person..... They obviously have no touch with reality. You don't demand free art, you request it respectfully, and prepare to get an answer of no if they can't. You either pay up, or shut up and wait for what you get.

And that's just rude to insult your nationality. If you find it funny, the polite thing to do in online circles is to keep it to yourself. ;P

ReikoNogitsune ~reikonogitsune

Writer

16 years ago

Yeah, I missed the AKP dream. It's too bad that I can't download anything. v.v It makes me sad! -cries- Grrr, people like that on Furc make me mad! I hated jerks like that, and I has met a couple of them. Oh, and by the way, I got me two jobs, so hopefully it won't be too long before I get me a laptop of my own, that way I can download things, like my SL and Furc.

MinnieShoof ~minnieshoof

The Enigmatic Ellyphante.

16 years ago

I hate to say it, but I doubt that's a "furc only" problem, is it? You can't just run away from every program you use just because there are assholes on it... can you? Just block 'um and move on.

HikariShade ~hikarishade

Anthro Artist

16 years ago

Never said I was running away. And I did block him and have moved on. But because Furc is a smaller program, they seem to crop up more often and is one of the reasons why I had 'graduated' to SL several years ago. Though that isnt to say you dont get your share of assholes on there, but because theres a larger majority of users, you see them less often.

MinnieShoof ~minnieshoof

The Enigmatic Ellyphante.

16 years ago

Didn't you just get through how sparsely populated SL is? or alteast, with good rp? So you moved from big lake, full of all kinds of fishes, to the ocean, with just as many fishes, but over 500 times the area? That doesn't sound like graduation at all.

HikariShade ~hikarishade

Anthro Artist

16 years ago

Um... graduation as in graphics wise.. and theres LOTS of people on SL, its just the decent RP thats hard to find. Why are you acting so aggressive about this? *is a tad confused*

MinnieShoof ~minnieshoof

The Enigmatic Ellyphante.

16 years ago

I just think that SL fosters poor RP for the sake of OOO, SHINY.

HikariShade ~hikarishade

Anthro Artist

16 years ago

Really depends on where you go and who you find to RP with. I have had several good RP's on SL, however its hard to find because it is larger, and many newbs like to try and use pose balls and animations to describe their actions instead of typing it out. But not everyone is like that, and I most certainly am not.

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