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I feel like I try too hard
a year ago
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HEY YOUSE BIGWELD! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-c9mlOrDhc4
I try and make everyone I know and like happy and get stuff with, be it a collab, bit of fanart or just to chill and hang out with and I seem to be either way too passive OR too overbearing. This is part of my problem I think, I say I want to stay with what I know but then I try and extend the branches of friends a bit and either I'm super paranoid in trying to have them think I'm cool and friendly to just being a pest. Very rarely do I feel like I'm in the right and then I just hermit myself back into my 'mancave' for weeks on end before I try again and get inspiration on a new piece and just get stuff I wanna see.
I dunno, does anyone else feel like that?
I dunno, does anyone else feel like that?
I'd say, try to keep a decent balance don't really need to get into collabs, fanarts and super duper speciall stuff, sometimes it's as simple as coming by and say hi to your friends to show them you still care about them and they'll appreciate it, or at least that's the way I see it, I'm not very much a social person anyways xD
but still, keep in mind that you cannot please everyone, some friends will stay, some others will become distant, some otheres may just be too busy with their lives to talk and such
so try do not stress yourself too much over it
Shit, I'd love to get some of the folks I like together and game, but I honestly don't think most (if any) of the people I really value on here think of me as a friend at all. Maybe i put too much of myself out there and onto other people, and I overstep. People I write for, I tend to think of as my friends because I make it a personal experience, and like sharing that with them. But maybe it's not the same for them, I dunno.
But I've always thought of you as a friend. You have my Discord, you have my name on here. If you ever need someone to talk to, or just hang with, or even to game, whatever, you can hit me up, brother. I'm your weird-non-gender-conforming-writing-sibling from another mother, and I've got you, boo.