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a year ago
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I want to tell you something very important. Please read this text to the end.
Short version of the story:
My "friend" cheated me out of a huge amount of money and I really need the money.
Long version of the story:
I've been feeling really bad for the past few months. It's all about a man named "M" (I won't reveal his name to avoid problems in the future). So... It all started a long time ago, I've known "M" for many years. "M" has always had a lot of financial problems, but I thought he was a good person, so I tried to help him. I really helped him a lot, so much so that when "M" was kicked out of his last house, I offered him to live with me and my partner at a mutual friend's. At the time, I thought the person who kicked "M" out of the house was the villain, but now I realize that he was damn right. The problems started right away, but they escalated very slowly, so it took me a while to realize how bad things were. "M" didn't pay rent or food, not even once. At first, I chalked it up to his problems and gave him time to recover, but then things only got worse. He lived here for almost a year absolutely free of charge, first promising that he would start paying "tomorrow" at least for food, and then began to get angry and offended by requests for money. Then... My father was hospitalized. I wrote a journal about it earlier. During that period, "M" helped me a lot with my father's search, visited him in the hospital with me, supported me... He really helped me a lot, so I became kinder to him. Plus, during that period, I was out of my mind because of my father and had a bad mind, and then... I made my biggest mistake. One day, "M" told me that he could earn good money and pay off all his debts if he did what he did best. That was driving. He tried to buy a car to work as a taxi driver, but all the banks refused him because he already had loans, and quite a lot. At that time, I naively and stupidly thought that he was just unlucky, and so... I made the biggest mistake of my life. I bought him a car. More precisely, I took out a HUGE loan to buy that damn car and let "M" work in it. "M" swore to me that he would pay this loan himself, that he would work day and night, and that as soon as he paid off all his debts to other banks, he would buy the car from me. I (stupidly) believed him. "M" had been my good friend for many years, so like an idiot I believed him. I also *sigh* took out another loan, much smaller than the first, but now also significant. To pay for the repairs in our house and part of "M's" debts. I thought that since he helped me in the past, he would definitely pay it all back.
I know that I am an idiot...
The result of this story: "M" deceived me. He took the car and did not pay the loan for it. He still promised that he would definitely pay "tomorrow". I tried to pay myself, I swore at "M", shouted and demanded my money. He paid, but not always and only for the next month, without returning my money for the previous one, which I paid myself. Yesterday I saw that in addition to this, "M" received many fines for driving violations, for a total of $130 (it's really a lot for my country), some of the fines were already overdue and he was NOT going to tell me about it.. On this note, my nerves ran out. I threw "M's" things out of the house, took the car keys and kicked him out into the street.
The stupidest thing in this story is that I still do not have a driver's license, because ... I did not have enough money for driving school.
I will try to sell the car, but part of the loan will still remain with me and I need to pay it. This is $400 per month ... In addition to this, I have another loan for $140 per month. In total, every month I have to pay the bank $540. It sounds just awful, I know. I am very stupid. If you have any thoughts about writing me something like "it's your own fault, you idiot", please don't do it. I already know that my gullibility has ruined me.
So... I need money. A lot of money. I am NOT asking for donations, but I am asking for commissions, so that the deal is fair... I am open to any kind of commission right now. I will shorten the deadline and draw as fast as I can. Besides that, I am looking for a second job, because this is the only way I will have enough money to pay off my debt and buy food.
Continuation of the story:
https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/10922255/
Short version of the story:
My "friend" cheated me out of a huge amount of money and I really need the money.
Long version of the story:
I've been feeling really bad for the past few months. It's all about a man named "M" (I won't reveal his name to avoid problems in the future). So... It all started a long time ago, I've known "M" for many years. "M" has always had a lot of financial problems, but I thought he was a good person, so I tried to help him. I really helped him a lot, so much so that when "M" was kicked out of his last house, I offered him to live with me and my partner at a mutual friend's. At the time, I thought the person who kicked "M" out of the house was the villain, but now I realize that he was damn right. The problems started right away, but they escalated very slowly, so it took me a while to realize how bad things were. "M" didn't pay rent or food, not even once. At first, I chalked it up to his problems and gave him time to recover, but then things only got worse. He lived here for almost a year absolutely free of charge, first promising that he would start paying "tomorrow" at least for food, and then began to get angry and offended by requests for money. Then... My father was hospitalized. I wrote a journal about it earlier. During that period, "M" helped me a lot with my father's search, visited him in the hospital with me, supported me... He really helped me a lot, so I became kinder to him. Plus, during that period, I was out of my mind because of my father and had a bad mind, and then... I made my biggest mistake. One day, "M" told me that he could earn good money and pay off all his debts if he did what he did best. That was driving. He tried to buy a car to work as a taxi driver, but all the banks refused him because he already had loans, and quite a lot. At that time, I naively and stupidly thought that he was just unlucky, and so... I made the biggest mistake of my life. I bought him a car. More precisely, I took out a HUGE loan to buy that damn car and let "M" work in it. "M" swore to me that he would pay this loan himself, that he would work day and night, and that as soon as he paid off all his debts to other banks, he would buy the car from me. I (stupidly) believed him. "M" had been my good friend for many years, so like an idiot I believed him. I also *sigh* took out another loan, much smaller than the first, but now also significant. To pay for the repairs in our house and part of "M's" debts. I thought that since he helped me in the past, he would definitely pay it all back.
I know that I am an idiot...
The result of this story: "M" deceived me. He took the car and did not pay the loan for it. He still promised that he would definitely pay "tomorrow". I tried to pay myself, I swore at "M", shouted and demanded my money. He paid, but not always and only for the next month, without returning my money for the previous one, which I paid myself. Yesterday I saw that in addition to this, "M" received many fines for driving violations, for a total of $130 (it's really a lot for my country), some of the fines were already overdue and he was NOT going to tell me about it.. On this note, my nerves ran out. I threw "M's" things out of the house, took the car keys and kicked him out into the street.
The stupidest thing in this story is that I still do not have a driver's license, because ... I did not have enough money for driving school.
I will try to sell the car, but part of the loan will still remain with me and I need to pay it. This is $400 per month ... In addition to this, I have another loan for $140 per month. In total, every month I have to pay the bank $540. It sounds just awful, I know. I am very stupid. If you have any thoughts about writing me something like "it's your own fault, you idiot", please don't do it. I already know that my gullibility has ruined me.
So... I need money. A lot of money. I am NOT asking for donations, but I am asking for commissions, so that the deal is fair... I am open to any kind of commission right now. I will shorten the deadline and draw as fast as I can. Besides that, I am looking for a second job, because this is the only way I will have enough money to pay off my debt and buy food.
Continuation of the story:
https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/10922255/
I'll note you to discuss this!
Now I will be more careful about trusting people
I am not that good at easing pain and especially soul ache but i can say that you are definitely not wrong here
Hard times and moments definitely reveal who is who and washes out masks from "friends" revealing their true nature
Had the same experience unfortunately couple of times
So i am willing to help with that i will notify you in private messages
And I'm very angry that because of bad people those who just wanted to help them suffer
Thank you for your support qq
I say, hire a goon to break M’s legs :P
I can’t comm right now, but I’ll dm you with an idea
I was also advised to reveal M's name, but I'm afraid to do this, since he has already started writing bad things to my friends.
And thank you qq
If I may offer a couple of little advices though.
First: If you're going to try to sell the vehicle in question, never make any deal where the buyer askes for any assistance getting the vehicle to them. Also don't accept any payments for the vehicle online, charge back scams for physical goods are rampant right now. Just be careful, if something feels wrong about any deal listen to your gut.
Second: You are not stupid! Perhaps a little desperate and in emotional turmoil. But not stupid. We are all social creatures and want to believe in those we once trusted. Don't let those that gave up break you down with them. You have a beautiful and gentle soul, I can see it in the art you create (despite your icon looking very unhappy all the time). Just don't give up, we'll help how ever we can.
And thank you for sharing this journal with other people! This is incredibly important to me...
Also thanks for your advice!!! I will be very careful and cautious when I sell the car. And I definitely won't do it alone, my friends will help me and I think I'll try to find some car dealership that can help collect all the necessary documents for the sale
And I certainly won't be able to help potential buyers with assistance getting the vehicle to them because I don't even have a driver's license...
Hoping things get better quickly and you get back on track asap 🤞
Ну и я подписалась, хочу узнать, накажут ли м - мне бы хотелось
Спасибо за поддержку и советы!!! ;_;
Я буду писать апдейты по мере продвижения дела
Держись там, главное не сдаваться. Суды могут затягиваться и тебе могут предложить замять все, особенно если покажешь свою усталость от волокиты, но ты не сдавайся. А ещё оцени адекватность этого М и если он прям шиз/злодей, спрячь машину, чтобы ей там стекла не побили или тип того. Некоторые мудаки могут мстить за то, что ты выводишь их на чистую воду((
And thank you qq
@ Little_Parrot
I would be happy about this because I have to pay the loan every month
I'll wait till your comms are open