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In regards to yesterday's note:
a year ago
Continuation from --> https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/10929900
First off, to those of you who commented, thank you very much for your support, it really means a lot to me. However, I also had a few people who I spoke to directly on Telegram, talking trash about the person who nit-picked my commission. I had to correct them individually about this, but before anyone does this on my previous journal, I got something extra to add: As fucked up as that was, please don't talk trash about the guy; He has social anxiety, and he doesn't really think about these things. I'm pretty sure it wasn't his intention to hurt me about it. So again, please don't trash talk about the guy.
Some of you are probably wondering why I would post that rant in the first place telling everyone about that instead of talking to him myself. First off, I didn't really give any names, nor specified what commission due to the risk of humiliating said person. And second, to be honest, I have a form of social anxiety myself, and when people piss me off like that, I find it very difficult to let it go, let alone to go back and talk to them directly. He came to me on Vore Day asking how I was enjoying my 8/8, and I blew him off telling him I didn't want to talk about it with him about it.
So, I guess you could say that yesterday's rant was more an indirect message to him, as to why I was upset.
So that was why I posted that rant.
Due to our past history, a part of me still has a little respect for him and I'll give him a chance, so it'll be up to him.
First off, to those of you who commented, thank you very much for your support, it really means a lot to me. However, I also had a few people who I spoke to directly on Telegram, talking trash about the person who nit-picked my commission. I had to correct them individually about this, but before anyone does this on my previous journal, I got something extra to add: As fucked up as that was, please don't talk trash about the guy; He has social anxiety, and he doesn't really think about these things. I'm pretty sure it wasn't his intention to hurt me about it. So again, please don't trash talk about the guy.
Some of you are probably wondering why I would post that rant in the first place telling everyone about that instead of talking to him myself. First off, I didn't really give any names, nor specified what commission due to the risk of humiliating said person. And second, to be honest, I have a form of social anxiety myself, and when people piss me off like that, I find it very difficult to let it go, let alone to go back and talk to them directly. He came to me on Vore Day asking how I was enjoying my 8/8, and I blew him off telling him I didn't want to talk about it with him about it.
So, I guess you could say that yesterday's rant was more an indirect message to him, as to why I was upset.
So that was why I posted that rant.
Due to our past history, a part of me still has a little respect for him and I'll give him a chance, so it'll be up to him.
Derilect
~derilect
That's a tough position to be in. On one hand, you want to be amicable and accomodating. On the other hand, you have a bottom line. Sometimes there is no happy medium and, right from the rip, you have to set boundaries. You can certainly move that line as you go, but that means you gotta acclimate, which isn't always easy. At the end of the day, it's alright to say no. It'll save a lot of headache in the long run!
