Sorry to hear that, I was victim of bullying in my childhood, in home and my school. I didn't know that you have a son, it's a shame that he can't stay around struggling with such situation

Bullying can take a tool on mental health, my son need care 24/7 and with chronic pain that's impossible to provide, he's in a group house with therapist and other kids with similar conditions.

You must miss him a lot, can you visit him? What is his condition? How are him?

He's fine I can't visit since we don't know how it's going to impact in his transition there.
But I can talk with their caretakers anytime I want ask for photos or videos.
He is mentally delayed and Autism mostly non verbal but can speak some words.
I miss him a lot and think of him daily TT

Are you worried about his life expectation?

I'm really worried glad to know I have all contacts.
If he need me I'll be there in a zap

I have autism, just turned 35 and my friend told me about this life expectancy of between 39 and 58.

I honestly don't think this is true, life expectancy is a bit of a theory in my opinion as some people expected to live to a certain age can either die younger or live far longer than expected.
I think I've heard of stories where people were told they'd die at a certain point and lived longer because they had the desire to or it just happened

I hope I don't sound like a dick saying that

Probably not true and there are there a lot of people in the autistic spectrum older than we think.

Suicide is one of the reasons some of us are not here anymore I have triggers and I'm still I therapy for this.

I know for a fact that the first person diagnosed with autism lived to his late 80s or 90s and in that video I've seen some comments of some saying they're older the 60