I might be asexual?
10 months ago
I'm JudyJudith and I approve this message.
Being happy with my single life has led me to realize I may be asexual. I find fulfillment in living independently, focusing on myself and my family relationships. While I don't experience sexual attraction or desire intimate physical relationships, I still appreciate NSFW artwork as a form of creative expression. Meaning I won't stop commissioning them. These arts allow me to explore fantasies and alternate versions of "myself" - like through my characters' designs, which differ from my own physical attributes. It's a way to engage with these themes artistically rather than personally.
Not me of course. We live in different countries. Difficult to snuggle on a sofa when there's a ocean between.
Only you would know. Also, you're young. It's hard to know what might happen down the road. You may find that as time goes on it just confirms that, or something could come along to change your mind. Either way is fine.
You seem unsure. Time will tell.
I'm not aromantic though! I am quite the opposite, and that makes things a bit harder for someone like me. I will say, I might not always be asexual if I find someone who can push my buttons right... Humans are adaptable things, aren't they?
i think asexual may not even get the interest to explore sex stuff in form of nsfw?
probably tbat's the reason of that comment, i see myself in that and ir worries me that i could be that
or maybe i associate the word asexual with that super cringe comic and think "you're better than this"? i lay just be stupid
What we're not even getting into yet is that there are multiple sliding scales: romantic attraction in real life, sam in fantasies. Sexual attraction in real life, sam in fantasies. They can match or not.
I think I'm demisexual as I'm not interested in sex very much and I suck on dating. Yet I enjoy having faving cute foxy ladies...