Question about discipline
7 months ago
How are you able to discipline yourself to not spend too much of time on your project in one sit when you're driven by impulses (ADHD) that can fade away very quickly if I don't do it *now*, but these impulses don't align with my physical capabilities (I can't work more than 2 hours at all) and the only outcome you can have from this is rushed project or a "forever WIP / unfinished" if very unlucky?
For instance, I can do projects that take 3 days to get complete, but with more long term projects I just lose interest and I really can't get back to them anymore...
I can only think of friends obliging me to send them WIPs each working day within certain timeframe and that's a working strategy if I get stuck doing commissions, but that's a whole other task I forget doing. And the problem is: I want to keep certain projects as complete surprises, especially if they're barely cooked, and I don't want to oblige complete strangers to oblige me either, so any other strategies would be helpful.
(This is, of course, question aimed to people with ADHD and chronic conditions or physical disabilities in general)
For instance, I can do projects that take 3 days to get complete, but with more long term projects I just lose interest and I really can't get back to them anymore...
I can only think of friends obliging me to send them WIPs each working day within certain timeframe and that's a working strategy if I get stuck doing commissions, but that's a whole other task I forget doing. And the problem is: I want to keep certain projects as complete surprises, especially if they're barely cooked, and I don't want to oblige complete strangers to oblige me either, so any other strategies would be helpful.
(This is, of course, question aimed to people with ADHD and chronic conditions or physical disabilities in general)
One thing I've noticed that changes my brain is when I finish a project, and I look back on it. Personally, I might think to myself that the piece could of been better, if I had left it in the oven for longer. Then on my next project, I might take those ideas I had and apply them for a better result, learn from the past, I suppose. I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with leaving something as a WIP or unfinished if you liked the idea at first, and ended up not connecting with it, it happens.
Honestly after looking into so many techniques, I kinda just came up with my own bastardized version of the pomodoro tech.; Getting a second monitor for my PC made a HUGE difference with the urge to switch to another program/tab without forgetting about what I was doing in the background in the long run, although I'm still sometimes guilty of being motivated by last minute panic lol; Just gotta make minimizing that the goal as well if need be.
Sometimes the stress of having seemingly so many different tasks or one huge task to tackle in a specific window of time can be made to look more intimidating than they really are in reality by our minds, even subconsciously without us noticing.
Since I do everything on my PC & have been more of a typer than a writer, I usually like to open notepad and individually split up each part/topic of my project that I have to tackle.
If i'm having trouble understanding something or know that I need guidance down the road, I usually search google/YT for the right tutorial that clicks with my mind the most, and copy/paste a link to it under whatever step/part of the project i'm on in my notepad file, if that makes sense.
This not only helps build some confidence when prepping for a project, but it also helps if you need a refresher if you take a break from the project and come back needing to remember where you left off, what information to retain, etc.
It honestly took me a while to figure out what methods that my stubborn mind could ball with, but sometimes adapting to our projects and coming up with our own methods along the way can be the art of the deal. In the end we're just trying to make compromises with our constant dopamine-seeking brains, and trying to apply one universal method to every project we try to work on might not be the most optimal method for a lot of us.
Apologies for that brief yap fest lol, but I hope my perspective can provide some assistance/comfort for you as it has for me(:.