My sister was just here. It got ugly!
8 months ago
So, just about 45 minutes ago I got a knock at my door. And it was my sister. My parents acted like she had no car to come out here with, let alone have the guts. Boy were they wrong! I was shocked to see her, but kept my cool at first. She wanted her mail with her tax papers. We had that mail sitting around for months, and eventually it got thrown away. I told my sister I'd go to our parents house and look for it. And right as I started walking, she asked for her cat back. I told her I do have the cat, and I'm not giving him back. That's when she went off on me. I held my arm up, and told her I wasn't doing this right now. And as I turned around, I saw that cat freaking running away from her.
My sister got back in her car and started saying terrible things about me. That's when I lost it and screamed at her to leave. She started driving away while yelling that she's lost everybody here, I'm a bad brother, etc. She gets outside the gate, then stops and starts backing up. So I closed the damn gate. She starts flipping out on me screaming "I hope mom was worth it to you!", and said she'd report me for keeping her cat. I screamed at her that when she really lost me, was when she told me our mother was going to die for crossing her! And then I called her out for not buying winter clothes for her kids. She claimed that was after her ex got custody of them. But no, it was before that! Her youngest son came to me in 39 degrees with nothing but a t-shirt and shorts! He didn't even own a coat! I spent $200 on clothes for her kids from the thrift stores! And she still owes me $800 for unpaid power bills!
We kept screeching at each other, and she kept talking about how I chose mom over her. So I brought up her biological father, who wasn't there for her, her entire childhood. She had to go looking for him when she was in her 30s! He never paid child support, cheated on our mother, and ran to Arizona! She yelled her father is a good guy. I yelled back her father is a piece of shit! Then I called her a narcissist who just blames others, and she needs a villain in her life just to function. And then by some miracle our parents showed up. Our mother tried to sooth her, and I walked away for a couple minutes. But she was losing her mind. I ended up yelling at her some more through the gate. And after I walked away a second time, my mother told me my sister called me a Fucker and drove away.
I'm furious, and my drawing arm fucking hurts from my recent stitches and tetanus shot. But unloading on her like that was sooo cathartic! She made me miserable for 37 years of my life! I've got the cat booked to be chipped on Monday. So once that's done, if my sister steals him back, I can call the police on her. And I won't hesitate to do that. Also, I wish I'd remembered to call her out on how I know she's a cheater. She still thinks I don't know. She had at least 3 affairs. One of which was with one of our cousins. She's a really fucked up person. And she blames it all on her dead boyfriend that committed suicide by ramming his car into a tree. The guy cheated on her with another woman in her own bed. And she said that's why she didn't want to come home. No, she was fucking out getting high, was barely home two nights a week, barely fed her kids, and didn't even buy them winter clothes! That's why we evicted her in December of 2023! She is a terrible person, and an even worse mother!
My sister got back in her car and started saying terrible things about me. That's when I lost it and screamed at her to leave. She started driving away while yelling that she's lost everybody here, I'm a bad brother, etc. She gets outside the gate, then stops and starts backing up. So I closed the damn gate. She starts flipping out on me screaming "I hope mom was worth it to you!", and said she'd report me for keeping her cat. I screamed at her that when she really lost me, was when she told me our mother was going to die for crossing her! And then I called her out for not buying winter clothes for her kids. She claimed that was after her ex got custody of them. But no, it was before that! Her youngest son came to me in 39 degrees with nothing but a t-shirt and shorts! He didn't even own a coat! I spent $200 on clothes for her kids from the thrift stores! And she still owes me $800 for unpaid power bills!
We kept screeching at each other, and she kept talking about how I chose mom over her. So I brought up her biological father, who wasn't there for her, her entire childhood. She had to go looking for him when she was in her 30s! He never paid child support, cheated on our mother, and ran to Arizona! She yelled her father is a good guy. I yelled back her father is a piece of shit! Then I called her a narcissist who just blames others, and she needs a villain in her life just to function. And then by some miracle our parents showed up. Our mother tried to sooth her, and I walked away for a couple minutes. But she was losing her mind. I ended up yelling at her some more through the gate. And after I walked away a second time, my mother told me my sister called me a Fucker and drove away.
I'm furious, and my drawing arm fucking hurts from my recent stitches and tetanus shot. But unloading on her like that was sooo cathartic! She made me miserable for 37 years of my life! I've got the cat booked to be chipped on Monday. So once that's done, if my sister steals him back, I can call the police on her. And I won't hesitate to do that. Also, I wish I'd remembered to call her out on how I know she's a cheater. She still thinks I don't know. She had at least 3 affairs. One of which was with one of our cousins. She's a really fucked up person. And she blames it all on her dead boyfriend that committed suicide by ramming his car into a tree. The guy cheated on her with another woman in her own bed. And she said that's why she didn't want to come home. No, she was fucking out getting high, was barely home two nights a week, barely fed her kids, and didn't even buy them winter clothes! That's why we evicted her in December of 2023! She is a terrible person, and an even worse mother!
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glad you're cutting contact with her!!
I hope things hash out well for you man, I can only hope to send good vibes your way
And just think, somewhere out there is a guy who thinks he can help her.