sex with the phone

You like it in theory, not in practice?

This. I love romance and sloppy romantic stuff. But the real deal? As an aromantic? Make it stay away of me.

yeah kinda
I like a lot of thing when they happen to a character but as soon as it shifts towards me... ew ew ew no

At least in this community, asexuality seems to come as a package deal with at least like, 20 kinks

dude real lmao
I think the real answer is just that, you don't HAVE to explain it to anyone. It's such a spectrum, none of us ever fit neatly into just one category!

I think it's a give and take. Personally I got tons of horny art of my character lol, but that's just Kiba the character where im almost a total prude.

An aroace doesnt seek out sex or romance, but I feel like that doesn't necessarily mean it's totally off the table (with the aroace's consent and them wanting to be intimate of course)

I could be totally wrong, but I feel an aroace could still choose to have an intimate -moment- with the right person, and still maintain those feelings.

sexuality is more than "let's fuck" it's also "i feel things about fucking regardless of if i want to fuck or not". it could be many many things.
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maybe it isn't aroace maybe it's highly specific boundaries. it's okay to be whatever, and characters are safe spaces to explore that.

big mood tbh