On self censoring words like "unalive"
6 months ago
General
Subs take it up the butt
I always hated it when people substituted suicide or killed with words like "unalived", "pew pew" (to describe being shot) or, (eugh) "sewer slide". I know most people did it cause they make money on Youtube and the almighty algorithm will demonetize their videos if they ever utter those naughty words, but even then I would see people say those words outside of Youtube or Tiktok and it just looked damn silly. Like, why do you need to self censor yourself when having a normal conversation? You're not being shadow banned on some random ass website.
After thinking on it some more, it then hit me on why these kinds of words annoy me; it sounds like how someone would talk to a child on a very sensitive subject that they don't fully grasp yet, which in turn kinda downplays the subject itself. The family dog that suddenly vanished one day? "Oh, Fido just went to live at a farm upstate!" You would speak like this to a child who is too young to understand the concept of death, not towards grown ass adults on the internet who fully know what dying means. I understand people have done that kind of talk before with euphemisms like "no longer with us", "they're gone now", or "they offed themselves", but in those cases, it's still clear what the speaker means without downplaying what the victim went through. The current trend of words like unalived (in combination with making money off the content on Youtube) downplays what happened and for some people, it can look quite disrespectful.
If something ever happened to me, I would want people to say it like it is rather than to dress it down with 1984 styled censorship. Let people understand the truth of what happened.
Then again, I'm just an old man yelling at the clouds at this point. lel.
After thinking on it some more, it then hit me on why these kinds of words annoy me; it sounds like how someone would talk to a child on a very sensitive subject that they don't fully grasp yet, which in turn kinda downplays the subject itself. The family dog that suddenly vanished one day? "Oh, Fido just went to live at a farm upstate!" You would speak like this to a child who is too young to understand the concept of death, not towards grown ass adults on the internet who fully know what dying means. I understand people have done that kind of talk before with euphemisms like "no longer with us", "they're gone now", or "they offed themselves", but in those cases, it's still clear what the speaker means without downplaying what the victim went through. The current trend of words like unalived (in combination with making money off the content on Youtube) downplays what happened and for some people, it can look quite disrespectful.
If something ever happened to me, I would want people to say it like it is rather than to dress it down with 1984 styled censorship. Let people understand the truth of what happened.
Then again, I'm just an old man yelling at the clouds at this point. lel.
Let
~let
This "unlive" nonsense amused me at first when it started happening in game chats and whatnot over a decade ago, but censoring your language like that in real life is just plain stupid. Kids learn what death is around ten years old, so there's nothing wrong with them hearing the words "dead" or "die" in the real world. Honestly, the whole nature of being online has made people weirder than ever and ridiculously sensitive to even the slightest breeze.
NewtGrayThing
~newtgraything
yeah, i've seen stuff like that. i think they're just being pussies, self-censoring words that aren't even obscenities.
ragnarakk
~ragnarakk
Its just cowardice in order to be able to talk about such things and still get paid online.. if you're going to talk hard subjects.. just do it.. don't demean what they did
Wolfy37
~wolfy37
they really gotta stop with that censoring stuff its getting out of hand
RedStarArmory
~redstararmory
They'd have to get rid of their stupid algorithm/automoderators which I do think is a good idea but google/youtube, tiktok... They're too cheap and lazy to go back to human moderators
Haruau
~haruau
Yeah I never use any of those stupid, Baby word versions. I just use what real adults say.
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