Well as someone who loves digging holes to seclude myself in, I’d say go favourite some art and comment on it look through some of your watchers gallery’s and interact with them or with random artists it’s a great way to get out there! Though so is doing roleplays with friends ^^

im just about to get some sleep but Uurgh im going through the same exact thing, i don't have as many default characters in my mind to shove into scenarios just cause i more generally crave cute comfy fat stuff at the moment, and ive been spending way more time offline or browsing youtube than talking to my friends, that and sometimes i just merely lurk and see what things they talk about
i dunno where i'm going with this but i completely get that server part too, you're always free to reach out to me and ive also just kinda been in a hidey hole lately and don't know where and how to really fix it