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Dealing with family shit again T.T
a month ago
Pretty much the continuation of that story: https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/11176287/
I'm writing this with two kids sleeping on my bed; last day been rough.
So yesterday; my ex sister-in-law (and mother of my 2 nephews) came to my place and left her two children with me; she never called me or asked if I was available to babysit, she just left them and left.
She never knocked at my place; I just went to open and saw the two kids.
I then called my brother and he was... Well he wasn't happy at all since him and her had the disucssion about 'Do not drop the kids at my sister without asking her if she's available!'
But the thing that made me more mad it's because I was trying to understand why my nephews had so much stuff with them and then I learned the rest of the situation and just... Well I grew very mad....
- My brother need to travel to make a special training for his job (My brother work in a compagny that do machine parts for aircraft) So he CAN'T miss it because he need this training to continue to work.
- My ex sister-in-law; Was supposed to keep the kids for the next week but grew discontent because... Well; she had something planned with her new boyfriend on the weekend and didn't wanted to have the kids... I guess...
- I talked with the kids my the older was like; "Yay; mama told ut that you'll keep us until dad come back!"
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- My brother come back next wednesday... His plane will arrive around midnight so of course I'll have the kids until thursday... AND my brother need to go work on friday so...
- And yes; my brother is trying to contact the mother since last night and she's not responding BUT she's able to send picture of herself on facebook =.=
- So I'm a little freakout because I'll surely have to take care of the two kids for at least a week since no one else in the family can really help.... yay!
- My mother will try to help me but as she work as a nurse and do a lot of extra hour; I know she's always tired and I want her to relax.
- So far; my mom is supposed to come pick them for tonight at least since she have tomorrow off but she won't be able to take them over the weekend (She has something planned for weeks and I won't ruin my mom plans)
- So yeay.... If you are waiting for files from me; you'll receive theses in the afternoon. Don't worry I didn't forget you.
- Anyway going now; must go make breakfeast; made the promises to do some banana pancakes...
- The sad thing is that I love theses two kids; my nephews are little angels and I hate how their mother is actin gnow. But I need to keep a smile because I don't want to saw bad things about her in front of them. But... I feel like they knew that she lied again just to be with her new boyfriend...
I'm writing this with two kids sleeping on my bed; last day been rough.
So yesterday; my ex sister-in-law (and mother of my 2 nephews) came to my place and left her two children with me; she never called me or asked if I was available to babysit, she just left them and left.
She never knocked at my place; I just went to open and saw the two kids.
I then called my brother and he was... Well he wasn't happy at all since him and her had the disucssion about 'Do not drop the kids at my sister without asking her if she's available!'
But the thing that made me more mad it's because I was trying to understand why my nephews had so much stuff with them and then I learned the rest of the situation and just... Well I grew very mad....
- My brother need to travel to make a special training for his job (My brother work in a compagny that do machine parts for aircraft) So he CAN'T miss it because he need this training to continue to work.
- My ex sister-in-law; Was supposed to keep the kids for the next week but grew discontent because... Well; she had something planned with her new boyfriend on the weekend and didn't wanted to have the kids... I guess...
- I talked with the kids my the older was like; "Yay; mama told ut that you'll keep us until dad come back!"
.................................................................
- My brother come back next wednesday... His plane will arrive around midnight so of course I'll have the kids until thursday... AND my brother need to go work on friday so...
- And yes; my brother is trying to contact the mother since last night and she's not responding BUT she's able to send picture of herself on facebook =.=
- So I'm a little freakout because I'll surely have to take care of the two kids for at least a week since no one else in the family can really help.... yay!
- My mother will try to help me but as she work as a nurse and do a lot of extra hour; I know she's always tired and I want her to relax.
- So far; my mom is supposed to come pick them for tonight at least since she have tomorrow off but she won't be able to take them over the weekend (She has something planned for weeks and I won't ruin my mom plans)
- So yeay.... If you are waiting for files from me; you'll receive theses in the afternoon. Don't worry I didn't forget you.
- Anyway going now; must go make breakfeast; made the promises to do some banana pancakes...
- The sad thing is that I love theses two kids; my nephews are little angels and I hate how their mother is actin gnow. But I need to keep a smile because I don't want to saw bad things about her in front of them. But... I feel like they knew that she lied again just to be with her new boyfriend...
Courage en tout cas, je sais que ce n'est jamais facile!
Et je croyais qu'elle avait comprit; juste la semaine dernière elle a été polie pour me demander de l'aide, j'ai gardé ses enfants pendants deux heures et elle m'avait même donner un peu d'argent puisque les enfants aiment bien une petite cantine dans mon coin. Et là; elle me fait ce coup-là... J'ai encore les enfants et je dois attendre que ma mère vienne les prendre ce soir; mon frère est tellement en colère mais il m'a transféré des fonds pour le souper des enfants. Et pendant ce temps; je dois garder un sourire car les enfants n'ont pas à vivre avec ma mauvaise humeur; ils n'ont rien fait de mal.
She knows she's in the wrong and this is what bothering us all the most right now.
I sincerely think you should call CPS on her
They wont take the kids away or anything, and that shouldnt affect the father either, but this should be a serious warning to her
I really thing the dad should try to get full custody, this is dangerous neglect. If you call cps and get paper for that, it would be good for a court proceeding
Who know what else shes gonna get up to to suck up to her new partner later on
For the moment; we keep track of all the photos she's posting (as proove she's not with her childs...) We are also making screenshot of our textos we send her; but she's ignoring all.