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Dealing with family shit again part 2
a month ago
Continuation of this: https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/11188388/
So yes: My ex sister-in-law left me with her two childrens and vanished last day while my brother he's in another Canada's province for his job. Everyone was trying to contact while trying to figure out where she was and all been awnsered just an hour ago.
She booked a trip in mexico with her new boyfriend; we saw the photos of her in her bikini with a drink... Now my brother in infuriated since he never knew about it; even more since she booked the day after AFTER he left for his job trip.
- My older brother can't come back because he don't want to loose his job.
- Everybody's mad against my sister-in-law / she don't respond to her phone.
- My nephews are sad because of their lying mother.
Anyway pure joy... Now my mother took the kids for tonight so I could take a moment to do a real grocery to feed them next week... They are NOT in a summer camp; so I'll have to take care of them all days... My mother will try to help me as she could but it would be hard due to her job as a nurse and... My others brothers works and can't really offer help (Like; they offered to take the kids for some activities on weekend...)
Anyway I'm just... Feeling so used again... I understand that I'm the 'available choice' but I hate to put my plan aside because of my ex sister-in-law's lies. It... it almost making me regret to have taking contact again with my family; I didn't dealt with such shit for 10 years and now... I feel like all the mental health I was able to rebuild is just crumbling.
I don't think I'll be able to work on new design; not now. I'm just feeling so numb... So don't be surprised if I don't post next week...
So yes: My ex sister-in-law left me with her two childrens and vanished last day while my brother he's in another Canada's province for his job. Everyone was trying to contact while trying to figure out where she was and all been awnsered just an hour ago.
She booked a trip in mexico with her new boyfriend; we saw the photos of her in her bikini with a drink... Now my brother in infuriated since he never knew about it; even more since she booked the day after AFTER he left for his job trip.
- My older brother can't come back because he don't want to loose his job.
- Everybody's mad against my sister-in-law / she don't respond to her phone.
- My nephews are sad because of their lying mother.
Anyway pure joy... Now my mother took the kids for tonight so I could take a moment to do a real grocery to feed them next week... They are NOT in a summer camp; so I'll have to take care of them all days... My mother will try to help me as she could but it would be hard due to her job as a nurse and... My others brothers works and can't really offer help (Like; they offered to take the kids for some activities on weekend...)
Anyway I'm just... Feeling so used again... I understand that I'm the 'available choice' but I hate to put my plan aside because of my ex sister-in-law's lies. It... it almost making me regret to have taking contact again with my family; I didn't dealt with such shit for 10 years and now... I feel like all the mental health I was able to rebuild is just crumbling.
I don't think I'll be able to work on new design; not now. I'm just feeling so numb... So don't be surprised if I don't post next week...
C'est tellement pathétique de sa part =.=
Ils ne sont pas cons; ils savent très bien que leur mère à menti!
juste le plus vieux des deux avait remarqué la valise dans la voiture! C'est un peu ce qui nous faisait savoir qu'elle projetait de partir plusieurs jours, mais au Mexique?!
En tout cas, je suis juste tellement déçu de la situation =.=
Might be worth cutting your family off again, thats an insane situation to be put in.
Your brother should be the one paying for these groceries, not you. Souns like he has a well paying job in the first place. I know of someone whos engineering airplane parts too, its a really well paid job. He just should shtraight up hire a nanny and have the kids remain in their apartment. They are using you like a maid
I really really think you need to call CPS on her. This isnt really gonna affect the children or your bro in a negative way, but its gonna give her a good scare and a proper warning. Id suggest having the CPS do a wellfare check on their home once shes back, so that shes humiliated enough to take it seriously. She just sounds so damn trashy. Shes only gonna feel the need to take action if she feels intimidated
He told me to keep all the receipts and he'll pay me back once he return from his trip! But yeah; I need to make all expenses by myself for now.
But yes; my brother wants to take action now since he managed to get in touch with her . She pretty much lied to him while saying that I accepted to take the kids while I didn't... I apparently accepted via textos but... strangely the textos can't be found either on her saide or mine and she's now telling that I'm the one lying... A chance my brother is not taking her shit right now.
Im glad its slowly getting resolved
Stay strong <3
Just gonna do my things at home and wait until next thursday when my borther would come get them.