Just found out what's upsetting my parents
4 weeks ago
Ok, everyone who reads my journals knows that my sister is a narcissist who's lost her mind to the point we had to cut her off. Well I just learned about an hour ago that my older stepbrother has lost his mind too. He's married to a woman that's just been intent on separating him from the rest of his family. He sent us a long ranting text, and then blocked us. Here's the thing, his crazy wife aside, he's a bit of a narcissist himself. He did the thing of intentionally forgetting his wallet when eating out with family, and he was on disability for nearly 20 years because he had bad kidneys. Then in his late 30s he got a kidney transplant, and suddenly hated his life. He was comfortable with his life as it was before. His lack of kidney function was part of his identity. Then suddenly he's got a working kidney, can't eat certain foods anymore, met a woman and knocked her up when he was like 40, and then married her. He cut off his mother two years ago. She was the one who helped him the most in getting his kidney transplant. Even moved all the way to Missouri with him, because he had to spend over a year there for the surgery. And he hated it there. Now he's all of a sudden texting rants and blocking us. Granted nobody in the family is perfect. But this came out of the blue. My dad is so mad that he says that if my brother doesn't want anything to do with him, then the feeling will be mutual. He's hurting really bad now. And it doesn't help that his body is starting to give out on him. He is my stepfather, but he was the dad I needed. My bio-father was a horrible person that walked out when I was an infant. He may be my bio-father, but he's not my dad. I've always said my dad is the one who raised me. And it pains me to see him in that kind of pain. It's making him lash out, and that in turn makes my mother lash out. It's no wonder they had to take a short vacation last week. This just sucks. Now I have two siblings that lost their minds.
I have friends who have family members who don't seem to be completely sane and are like twisted reflections of some good relatives, copies and mocking parodies of said members of their families who do have something good while others don't and only seem to have inherited the worst of the worst of their Family Trees <:v
Not about to complain. You made one of my fav Fluttershy comic.
Cutting people out of your life who saved your life is dishonorable. Also depending on who did what may be petty at best. Again I don't know where to side here...