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"opposites attract"
3 weeks ago
I know this is more of a sound-bite type of metaphor but it is probably one of the dumbest myth perpetuated by people that date someone they can't really stand, idk im just angry about this line today. Yeah, magents maybe do but all these key-hole and plugs analogies for human relationship fall flat so fast.
"she listens to metal and and he's into hip hop haha xD" no, you both love music, maybe for different reasons but you do, maybe conervative men and their "doesn't speak about politics around him" wifes but you don't really see queer people date facists or strongly religious people hang around godless edgelords. Not too rarely, like shockingly so, relationships are driven by the mutual desire to not be alone or to perform the societal "you need to have a partner to be happy" and the opposites and differences in worldview, how you see each ohter and handle problems is usually the thing that drives you appart.
I saw this post that said "Be yourself so people that are looking for you can find you" and that is really flipping cool
The louder you are at being yourself, being funny, being into trains, being lowkey evil, being annoying, being into transformers, being polite, being naked while drinking coffee, being a Ultrakill yaoi Ao3 writer, being kinda scared, being nasty, being a little bit nonchalant and mysterious (as you always planned), the more likely it becomes that people will, as said, find you
It comes back to this "you receive the love you give" / "you get the energy you give into the world" - If you want to be loved, you have to give the love you want to the world. and the risk that come with it, and let me tell you, it is so worth it
a thousand scars are wroth that one time your heart gets to be held right
anyway, the world is out there, be part of it, it will suck with or without you anyways ´w ´
"she listens to metal and and he's into hip hop haha xD" no, you both love music, maybe for different reasons but you do, maybe conervative men and their "doesn't speak about politics around him" wifes but you don't really see queer people date facists or strongly religious people hang around godless edgelords. Not too rarely, like shockingly so, relationships are driven by the mutual desire to not be alone or to perform the societal "you need to have a partner to be happy" and the opposites and differences in worldview, how you see each ohter and handle problems is usually the thing that drives you appart.
I saw this post that said "Be yourself so people that are looking for you can find you" and that is really flipping cool
The louder you are at being yourself, being funny, being into trains, being lowkey evil, being annoying, being into transformers, being polite, being naked while drinking coffee, being a Ultrakill yaoi Ao3 writer, being kinda scared, being nasty, being a little bit nonchalant and mysterious (as you always planned), the more likely it becomes that people will, as said, find you
It comes back to this "you receive the love you give" / "you get the energy you give into the world" - If you want to be loved, you have to give the love you want to the world. and the risk that come with it, and let me tell you, it is so worth it
a thousand scars are wroth that one time your heart gets to be held right
anyway, the world is out there, be part of it, it will suck with or without you anyways ´w ´
be yourself and you will inherently draw those in you're meant to be around.
and when you think you have the realest thing, years down later they break up and flood you with this biblical long list of the things that pissed them off about the other
like, shit bitch you lived like this ? awright
You have to find someone who you are comfortable with and can share your passions with. Not having to wear a mask or be free only when they are not looking.
In a relationship that works, you can be yourself, without fear of letting out stupid thoughts, without fear to just be. Being in a good relationship is like having the best sleepover with your best friend but everyday.
Get excited about the same things, be silly, sometimes stupid. Be yourself and support the other in being themselves, being free. As we always say with my cutie "be stupid together"
> I saw this post that said "Be yourself so people that are looking for you can find you" and that is really flipping cool
The louder you are at being yourself, being funny, being into trains, being lowkey evil, being annoying, being into transformers, being polite, being naked while drinking coffee, being a Ultrakill yaoi Ao3 writer, being kinda scared, being nasty, being a little bit nonchalant and mysterious (as you always planned), the more likely it becomes that people will, as said, find you
I needed to read this 😔
"me and the bitch I pulled by being autistic" energy
preventing an echo chamber doesnt mean hanging around people you hate and also realizing you love and dislike and like and otherwise tolerate different people for different reasons and different amounts
part of why despite everything I'm trying to put myself out there more and make mistakes
to quote something I saw from a piece by
"There is no such a thing as a reflection, without something to be reflected."
But I definitely agree with you here. I still have some trouble being myself in a lot of situations, but with my partner I'm basically all out and we're weird together and it's great