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About Consent [IMPORTANT]
a month ago
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Guys news flash, just bc someone is talking about being horny doesn't mean you suddenly have consent and/or don't have to fucking ask. I try to be polite about it but I REALLY do not like it when someone busts into my dm's shoving themselves on me. Like. No. I'm not attracted to you, esp when you do shit like that. Stop fucking feeling me up or whatever because YOU think it's hot. I don't. If it were IRL I would have turned around and hit you or something for behaviour like that.
Like??? this isn't to say you can't flirt with me- in the right time and place I do enjoy a little flirting from time to time but that's totally different from coming into my DM's molesting me or something. I've already made it clear i'm not interested in role-playing or whatever, I do not understand how suddenly that's bypassed by me talking about being horny. I am so tired of this. It's not hard to fucking ask. Next time someone does this the response wont be pretty.
YES if you've decided to come in with any sort of roleplay-style dm and touched me or shoved your balls on me or whatever the fuck, this includes you. Not sure? Ask. I am so fucking tired of this. I don't care. Don't apologize to me, just be better cause I'm not here to listen to excuses.
Like??? this isn't to say you can't flirt with me- in the right time and place I do enjoy a little flirting from time to time but that's totally different from coming into my DM's molesting me or something. I've already made it clear i'm not interested in role-playing or whatever, I do not understand how suddenly that's bypassed by me talking about being horny. I am so tired of this. It's not hard to fucking ask. Next time someone does this the response wont be pretty.
YES if you've decided to come in with any sort of roleplay-style dm and touched me or shoved your balls on me or whatever the fuck, this includes you. Not sure? Ask. I am so fucking tired of this. I don't care. Don't apologize to me, just be better cause I'm not here to listen to excuses.
Junkpaw
~junkpaw
-w-! Hear hear! I've had a few of those in my notes and private messages... I've got a bunch of kinky characters and whatnot, but I'm actually asexual... I don't mind like... Playing around, teasing, and shit, but trying to get me into a full blown sex RP is not of interest to me... And so many just... Don't ask... They assume "You're kinky, you must want to fuck me! You must be desperate!" *sigh* -w-...
Yonnixart
~dessydeathcat
OP
Literally!!! I enjoy erp but not without set up, discussion, etc. I'm demisexual so similar hat lol. While I enjoy sex, thats totally different from enjoying someone coming in your space and shoving their hand up ur ass lol. It's like sensing a dick pic unsolicited.. sigh -_- best of luck w those types
Junkpaw
~junkpaw
>w>... I just give them one or two chances based on what I know, and if they lose that, they're blocked or otherwise ousted from my life. They're not worth my time to dwell upon or negotiate with anymore.
Yonnixart
~dessydeathcat
OP
Yeah at this point I think I'm going to have to do that. It's never been so bad before recently [for me anyway] and I've about had it. T~T Idc if anyone is potential clients anymore i'm donneee
Halo2SniperJackal
~sussyballsajwkmdmsjz
Truer words have never been spoken! People suck sometimes...
Yonnixart
~dessydeathcat
OP
You get me.. idk why people are like this but i'm about to start neutering ppl if this keeps up
I hate sex spammers too, they come at me with some of the weirdest most uninteresting stuff trying to push it on me and whatnot. I wind up ignoring them and they keep on poking like they don't get the message, then I have to tell them to fuck off or whatever. I agree, it's annoying af and it seems like more of them are coming out of the woodwork nowadays. Like, most of us have lives outside of here and being a furry and don't have the time or patience for it, maybe when we were in High School with nothing but time, but we've got bills to pay and things to do. Don't have time for sex spammers.
Yonnixart
~dessydeathcat
OP
No, seriously? Why is it never something actually interesting if they're even going to do that -_-. + its so easy to work ones way up to casual flirting, but no one has time for that, it seems. Only this type of brutish behaviour. So true too, we're human beings w/ lives outside of being a furry no matter how close you are to your character or how animalistic your gender is with thoughts adn feelings, and even then most of my OC's don't like being randomly touched either. IDC How much of a slut they are, or how horny I am, not asking means no??? Brah
Exactly! If you want that sort of attention from them, you'd ask them for it, until then they need to respect boundaries. Most furs aren't out there just trying to have sex like they think we are, they need to get that in their heads. Just because we've got lewd content doesn't mean that's what we are 24/7 outside of the internet, we're normal functioning members of society with a furry side hobby to help us get away from society now and then.
