I'll ask a question, answer if you think you must.

If you have a fallout with someone, they hurt you or you have a relationship breakdown, a bad one lets say, how is the reaction - no matter to what level, justified by the means?

I've forgiven stuff before, maybe its taken longer on some aspects, or in a blink on others, so let me break this down so anyone wishing too can answer properly.

My question, in simple terms is this.

"How can you forgive, what you see, as unforgivable actions?"

Is it character, personality, a misfiring spark in ones mind?

Or is it because it really is an unforgiving action?

I mean theres certain things you can't forgive but others can, like a cheating lover, maybe you can forgive it once, maybe not, or stealing, it can be let off sometimes.

Help me to see a bigger picture here, and maybe the things I have deemed unforgivable, I can forgive, because honestly I'm getting a bit tired of old fights cropping up on me, or others having to jump in and think they need defend me against others. I'm a twenty three year old gentle giant, I'm pretty sure I'm okay to fight my own battles ^_^;

The other part of this I'll add before people give their views, opinions of some such or even answers straight, is simply:

"When do you just let it go and stop caring?"

I guess I've put in two questions, oh well.

Anyones welcome comment away, but keep in mind, keep it civil, keep it polite.

Trolling is for 4chan.org and the Anon tag, not here.

Love, V.