You'll be alright, KayKay. Just learn to pick 'em better. ^^

Oh trust me Adam. I know pretty much no one likes Randy. And they all think I've made a mistake with him. But I've been with plenty of people. Not just people I've dated. But been hugged by, held by, close to. And I've never felt the way around anyone, family, friends, lovers, the way I feel around him. I completely lose myself to comfort, a feeling of safety, and am just more happy than I could ever be just from a simple hug. Don't get me started on kisses, snuggling in the sheets, or sex. He's just...I know theres something worth all the trouble underneath it all. I just don't know how to explain it in a way other people will accept and realize.

Aww *hugs*

I know it's prolly weird coming from a guy, but most guys are jerks. There's a steady supply of jackasses in this world, and finding a nice guy is rare and hard.

Course you girls don't want to date those nice guys, but that's a different matter altogether.

I tend to have a lot of self-confidence. And I'm funny, and I've been told I'm cute too.

I guess I'm a little picky with girls.

I like girls with self-confidence, myself - I'm tired of all the girls who think they're fat if they weigh 140 pounds and who think they have to be tall, skinny, and have ginormous boobs to impress me.

I also don't like girls who want you to shower them with expensive gifts to show them how much you love them. I want girls who don't need to be shown that, where proof enough is shown through my wanting to be with them.

It's difficult to find a girl like that who is okay with being with a geek.

Bah, silly girls. I like you if you've got an amazing personality. I could hardly care what you look like on the outside - I do, of course, have standards, but they're more in the area of 'they have to look good' than 'they must be 5'5, blonde hair, blue eyes, big breasts.'

And yeah - flowers, little gifts, etc. My first girlfriend was angry at me because I didn't want to spend 300 dollars on a necklace, instead I'd spend like... 5 bucks on a cute little stuffed animal and a bouquet of flowers, or a book of some kind.

Hahah. Well. My guy is a nice guy, I know he is. He doesn't think so himself though. But he lacks a lot of confidence, and tends to be a bit...whats the word...insecure. To put it bluntly, there are parts of his physical appearance he is unhappy with and he thinks it'll make me think less of him. But it's not true, I love him just the way he is. He sometimes thinks he has to buy me nice things, but it makes me feel uncomfortable. The one gift thats meant the most to me that I've ever gotten from anybody was the one he gave me for our first month together. A little polar bear plush. I can't sleep without it, especially now.

But I found out that lately I really haven't been treating him like I should. He was afraid to point it out and hurt my feelings. But while he was upset with me, another girl started being nice to him. He got a crush on her and told me, and I only got worse. So now we're having a bit of a break for him to work things out...(he was a very violent person when we met, but around me he was as calm as could be, but now I've caused him a lot of anger) and for us to fix things up. So yea. It'll be a hard road, but one well worth it in the end. I'd rather work things out and keep him than to lose him forever. I just know he's worth it. *also points up to her reply to the first comment*

I like dating the nice guys and helping them realize that they are great guys. It's fun and worth it.

Well I am late to reply, not that I have much to say, but I hope things do work out. Though I shouldn't be giving advice seeing I've been starved for a relationship outside of family for years now.

Hey don't worry.

You can read my other two long replies if you like, they fit for just about everyone I could reply to. :3 I know things will be okay, just not right away.

I'm a bit lonely but not distressed. I probably do fit in the insecure category by the fact I feel I'm too self centered to have a relationship right now.

I also carry the idea that everyone is taken! *laughs*

*awwwwws and hugs comfortingly*

*giggles and snugs close*

Thanks. Thanks a bunch. *also points up to other replies if you want more of an idea of whats going on.*

*cuddles back and did read, he just offers comfort and support though, tired coon just worn out over such things and the occasional clawing he's gotten doing more*