Relationship Thingy
15 years ago
I am in a relationship with the sweet and musical
greggest, from whom I stole this thingy.
1. Who eats more?
I pretty much snack constantly, but come meal time, Greggest has, like, CRAZY eating powers
2. Who said “I love you” first?
If memory serves, we kinda' stumbled over each other, saying it simultaneously, more or less.
3. Who is the morning person?
Well, I am *officially* the morning person, but Greggest often makes the coffee that gets me going in the wee hours.
4. Who sings better?
UUuuhhhhh I dunno :P I try not to sing that often *gleee*
5. Who’s older?
Me, but only by a few years :)
6. Who’s smarter?
He's got more suits than I do, so I have to give this one to Greggest. He is by far more smartly dressed than I.
7. Whose temper is worse?
*points surreptitiously at his hubby* Heh heh. Greggest has a hot temper, but it flares and is not too difficult to quell. I have a very slow-burn, lava temper that bubbles up from my core and obliterates everything in its path. XD So, I think mine is worse.
8. Who does the laundry?
We don't have an official laundry-doer.. one of us just does it when it needs to be done.
9. Who does the dishes?
Same as previous.
10. Who sleeps on what side of the bed?
He sleeps next to the wall; I sleep next to the room.
11. Whose feet are bigger?
His. I got dainty lil tootsies.
12. Whose hair is longer?
Totally mine.
13. Who’s better with the computer?
Can I say"neither?" I guess I am, even though I know next to nothing about them, I can usually stumble my way through things with relative ease.
14. Do you have pets?
An itty-bitty bunny, yup.
15. Who pays the bills?
Both of us do. We currently have two sets of bills so, we pay our own.
16. Who cooks dinner?
We both do the cooking. We both love to cook, and we both love to eat.
17. Who drives when you are together?
(I usually try to get him to drive XD )
18. Who pays when you go out to dinner?
*we* do :) :) since we share that budget :)
19. Who’s the most stubborn?
He is. *nods* Well... In a way. He is more actively stubborn, I think. I am more passively so. But, mine just probably comes across as fickle and irritable.
20. Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?
I never timed it. When we make a mistake, we own up to it. We're adults; that's what adults do.
21. Whose family do you see more?
Mine. *nodnods*
22. Who named your pet?
I did, but I had the bunny for a few years before meeting Greggest.
23. Who kissed who first?
Sheeeeit, that's the first thing we did. Who knows who made the first move. Like so many things with us, it was simultaneous and mutual.
24. Who asked who out?
Neither. We chatted, felt a connection; he visited, and we fell for each other right there.. There was no "courtship" perse' because we'd already won each other over.
25. What did you do on your first date?
Joe's Crab Shack :) it was an impromptu date, and it was a TON of fun.
26. Who’s more sensitive?
*thinks* We are both pretty damn sensitive.. He reacts faster, but I think I brood more. We actually pull each other closer to center on this. I help calm his knee-jerk reactions, and he helps draw out my toxic feelings before they can poison me.
27. Who’s taller?
He is :)
28. Who has more friends?
I think he does *nod nods*
29. Who has more siblings?
I do.
30. Who wears the pants in the relationship?
We both wear pants; we are both men. Neither of us is "boss" or "alpha," but we each have our strengths, and there are matters which one or the other of us will default to being "in charge." Finances, for instance, are *his* domain.

1. Who eats more?
I pretty much snack constantly, but come meal time, Greggest has, like, CRAZY eating powers
2. Who said “I love you” first?
If memory serves, we kinda' stumbled over each other, saying it simultaneously, more or less.
3. Who is the morning person?
Well, I am *officially* the morning person, but Greggest often makes the coffee that gets me going in the wee hours.
4. Who sings better?
UUuuhhhhh I dunno :P I try not to sing that often *gleee*
5. Who’s older?
Me, but only by a few years :)
6. Who’s smarter?
He's got more suits than I do, so I have to give this one to Greggest. He is by far more smartly dressed than I.
7. Whose temper is worse?
*points surreptitiously at his hubby* Heh heh. Greggest has a hot temper, but it flares and is not too difficult to quell. I have a very slow-burn, lava temper that bubbles up from my core and obliterates everything in its path. XD So, I think mine is worse.
8. Who does the laundry?
We don't have an official laundry-doer.. one of us just does it when it needs to be done.
9. Who does the dishes?
Same as previous.
10. Who sleeps on what side of the bed?
He sleeps next to the wall; I sleep next to the room.
11. Whose feet are bigger?
His. I got dainty lil tootsies.
12. Whose hair is longer?
Totally mine.
13. Who’s better with the computer?
Can I say"neither?" I guess I am, even though I know next to nothing about them, I can usually stumble my way through things with relative ease.
14. Do you have pets?
An itty-bitty bunny, yup.
15. Who pays the bills?
Both of us do. We currently have two sets of bills so, we pay our own.
16. Who cooks dinner?
We both do the cooking. We both love to cook, and we both love to eat.
17. Who drives when you are together?
(I usually try to get him to drive XD )
18. Who pays when you go out to dinner?
*we* do :) :) since we share that budget :)
19. Who’s the most stubborn?
He is. *nods* Well... In a way. He is more actively stubborn, I think. I am more passively so. But, mine just probably comes across as fickle and irritable.
20. Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?
I never timed it. When we make a mistake, we own up to it. We're adults; that's what adults do.
21. Whose family do you see more?
Mine. *nodnods*
22. Who named your pet?
I did, but I had the bunny for a few years before meeting Greggest.
23. Who kissed who first?
Sheeeeit, that's the first thing we did. Who knows who made the first move. Like so many things with us, it was simultaneous and mutual.
24. Who asked who out?
Neither. We chatted, felt a connection; he visited, and we fell for each other right there.. There was no "courtship" perse' because we'd already won each other over.
25. What did you do on your first date?
Joe's Crab Shack :) it was an impromptu date, and it was a TON of fun.
26. Who’s more sensitive?
*thinks* We are both pretty damn sensitive.. He reacts faster, but I think I brood more. We actually pull each other closer to center on this. I help calm his knee-jerk reactions, and he helps draw out my toxic feelings before they can poison me.
27. Who’s taller?
He is :)
28. Who has more friends?
I think he does *nod nods*
29. Who has more siblings?
I do.
30. Who wears the pants in the relationship?
We both wear pants; we are both men. Neither of us is "boss" or "alpha," but we each have our strengths, and there are matters which one or the other of us will default to being "in charge." Finances, for instance, are *his* domain.

Greggest
~greggest
You were right, love. But even though your answers were very similar to mine, I love hearing it from you.