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Friend tried giving me a HJ (My body sensitivity may be low)
16 years ago
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Not sure why I am posting this, but whatever.
I was with a friend of mine who is Gay as he needed some help with computer related things. Not sure how it came up, but we were talking about stuff, porn, showed him some furry porn on here and my laptop.
Eventually, we started talking and he was asking me various questions and whatnot. Then for me, I attempted to ask him if maybe he wanted to see my "tool" downstairs. The first attempt failed due to nervousness and perhaps not wording it correctly.
After some time, I just bluntly asked him if he wanted to see my cock. He said sure, so, needless to say, he tried giving me a handjob and watched me try and masturbate as he rubbed his hands over me, but unfortunatly, it didn't seem to do much. >.<
For me, I have noticed that for as long as I can remember, it seems for the most part, it is like my body seems to most of the time make it so feeling aspects of touch, be it me touching my arm or other aspects of my body to be barely able to be sensed. I mean, I can slap my arm till it's red, and it would barely hurt.
Needless to say, I felt bad as I know he was trying to make me feel good, but alas it seemed it didn't work.
I am wondering why it is that my body seems to have this tactile sensory deprevation effect. I noticed that at night it seems as though the sensory dullness goes away to the point of feeling mild tickliness when say, I rub my arm or shoulder, yet most of the day, it isn't sensitive at all.
Anyone else have similar things happen about a type of body senses being dulled for unknown reasons?
I have thought maybe I was overthinking about my body's sensitivity of touch to be odd a lot, but I always assumed I was overthinking and overreacting and put it out of my mind. My body has probably been this way for a few years I think.
I think the reason I am thinking about it now is that I have a type of proof that is is not just my mind and aspects of where someone else doing touching stuff has the same dull sensation.
It also makes me wonder about aspects of any potential future sexual endeavors and how this would play out. I would feel bad if a partner trying to make me feel good is unable to due to my body being like it is.
Eh, maybe I am overthinking.
Post your thoughts or opinions or whatnot I suppose if you wish.
I was with a friend of mine who is Gay as he needed some help with computer related things. Not sure how it came up, but we were talking about stuff, porn, showed him some furry porn on here and my laptop.
Eventually, we started talking and he was asking me various questions and whatnot. Then for me, I attempted to ask him if maybe he wanted to see my "tool" downstairs. The first attempt failed due to nervousness and perhaps not wording it correctly.
After some time, I just bluntly asked him if he wanted to see my cock. He said sure, so, needless to say, he tried giving me a handjob and watched me try and masturbate as he rubbed his hands over me, but unfortunatly, it didn't seem to do much. >.<
For me, I have noticed that for as long as I can remember, it seems for the most part, it is like my body seems to most of the time make it so feeling aspects of touch, be it me touching my arm or other aspects of my body to be barely able to be sensed. I mean, I can slap my arm till it's red, and it would barely hurt.
Needless to say, I felt bad as I know he was trying to make me feel good, but alas it seemed it didn't work.
I am wondering why it is that my body seems to have this tactile sensory deprevation effect. I noticed that at night it seems as though the sensory dullness goes away to the point of feeling mild tickliness when say, I rub my arm or shoulder, yet most of the day, it isn't sensitive at all.
Anyone else have similar things happen about a type of body senses being dulled for unknown reasons?
I have thought maybe I was overthinking about my body's sensitivity of touch to be odd a lot, but I always assumed I was overthinking and overreacting and put it out of my mind. My body has probably been this way for a few years I think.
I think the reason I am thinking about it now is that I have a type of proof that is is not just my mind and aspects of where someone else doing touching stuff has the same dull sensation.
It also makes me wonder about aspects of any potential future sexual endeavors and how this would play out. I would feel bad if a partner trying to make me feel good is unable to due to my body being like it is.
Eh, maybe I am overthinking.
Post your thoughts or opinions or whatnot I suppose if you wish.
It rarely seems to turn itself off which sometimes can be annoying.
Oh, another thing I forgot to mention above is that what completly killed the mood was aspects of me trying to hard, I got a horrible thigh cramp and had to stretch it out which equated to instant boner killer. >.<
Of course, there can be times when I am trying to pleasure myself that even at times it can take a LONG time for me to finally "explode" where others, I ca do it in maybe 5 mins tops. Talk about odd huh?
This may be too much info, but for me, at times say, using a condom when pleasuring myself can help, but one that that works wonders is a towel. Something about the semi fuzziness of a bath towel feels amazing. Damp or not damp. I wonder why?
Eh, maybe I am talking a bit too much now and sorry if I said too much and caused you discomfort. >.<
Lol more TMI.
I was going to ask something as we were talking about things that could be potentially TMI, but I realized you are in a relationship so asking of that would not be appropriate. All I will say is it would have involved a webcam on my end. ^_^;
:3 i think its just all in the mood. the setting, the attraction, all that stuffs.
Yay for randomness. >.<
It could be that your body just dosent respond to Guys.. I.e. Your strate.
Sexual arousal is not just triggerd by touch. Its also smell, and feramones.
But don't take my word for it.
I could be wrong, and your body may just have a hard time being stimulated.
I think it could just be aspects of my body being hard to stimulate. I mean I wonder if something mentally could be going on as to me, when I am out & about, the media would make you think that others look at others and think "Damn they are hot or etc." But to me, I do not think in such ways. I think to me, perhaps due to the way I was raised, I think such thoughts could be considered mildly immature or something so it seems I do not think in that way at all when looking at others in real life face to face so to speak. If it was say over a webcam of some other means, then it may be different. I think my body and mind are just unique and semi odd when it comes to things of a sexual nature.
I mean, even aspects of a dual mentality when it comes to the subject of sex. I am openminded to all aspects of sex and would be willing to try various forms of it. But at the same time my mind also tells iteself that people at times think too much about sex and make it to be this huge thing when it may to some not be the best in the world or something.
I dont know, Maybe that dual mindset of sex cancels each other out making my mind and body kina blank when it comes to things of sex and other stuff, you know?
anyway, I won't get into any details about what I do, but I just allow myself to think "ok, there's no reason I should feel uncomfortable" and I keep my mind on the right track, so I can enjoy what's going on (via, what the other guy is doing to me xD)
Actually, for me, when out and about or around others, it seems as though my mind and body shuts out all aspects of arousal. I almost never get a stiffy in public. Which to him he was like "O.O really?"
Actually, he said he probably sounded like he was interrogating me. ^_^;
It started off as random conversation and slowly dwelled more into aspects of sexual aspects and my having 0 experiance in ANYTHING sexual with another person. As it has been me & my hand pretty much.
If anything, due to my upbringing and whatnot, it was somewhat hard for me to talk about the stuff.
Even when my mind was as clear as it could be, I simply was unable to feel much sensation on my body. My body seems to have some aspect where most of the time it is in a state where aspects of touch on my body simply are extremely weak or deadened almost to the point of not feeling it.
I mean, I could probably smack my arm like crazy till it was bright red and I would probably not really even feel it.
Granted, I have noticed despite this factor, the rare times I have been to the doctor and they did shots, I felt that. So I think it is more a surface skin issue. Things like say, being penetrated anally, I think would be full 100% sensory enjoyment and potential overload. I am unsure whether say my mouth would be as sensitive or not.