Some people love to play the martyr as Neiro does; so when he is being an ass, he down plays some aspect of what he did to upset the other person, changes details, then declares to the world he is being persecuted to garner sympathy and attention. He is a classic Narcissist.
For every jerk who aggravates and bothers an innocent artist, there is a jerk of an artist who harangues and demeans innocent watchers. And for everyone who is an ass to people on the net, there is an entry in his journal ass to why everyone else is an ass to him.
The joys of the net: everyone is the innocent victim and their drama is of greater importance then everything else in the world.
He wanted a rise, and I gave it. He also wanted to look like the innocent party, and I did little to contradict that. Yes you are exactly right: it was my mistake, a mistake I have corrected.
I have stopped watching this account, blocked his IM, blocked his email, stopped responding to his post/replies, and I will avoid him as much as physically possible in the future. If Niero is upset at all, it is because someone dared to declare themselves better then to deserve his abuse.
I fear that he will soon post more journals of this like soon, and that soon trollers will be encouraged by Niero, either directly or indirectly, and I will be facing the fallout from this stupidity for a while.
Thank you for not jumping to conclusions about this situation and taking sides: if the world was filled with more people like you most disagreements would be small and quickly settled: there would be far less violence and far fewer wars.
I perish to think what your poor man has to go through. If you treat someone whom you can't speak face to face with or lay your hands on I perish to think what abuses you put him through.
But some people are gluttons for punishment: me I am about to go on a diet.
I know some true masochists: they never really garner respect and dignity, only abuse. They enjoy it for a time, all the abuse and attention, but then they are left unfulfilled. Even a slave needs some some respect, dignity, and love.
You cannot love someone whom you seek to repeatedly abuse and degrade without provocation: no one can...
I am not analyzing you: I don't know you very well. All I did was repeat an observation that may or may not apply: but one directly related to your jest. All I know is that either Neiro suck you on me or you decided to defend him without knowing the facts first.
I will analyze people whom I know; Neiro is a classic Narcissist. It is a mental disorder and I do not fault people for those: only when they refuse to work on their issues and demand to continue in belligerent courses of action.
I did open the door for you to spill the details about your sex life in public, didn't I? I bet you were waiting a very long time for that opportunity.
I am going on a diet from abuse RR: you have so far insulted me directly, gossiped about me, sought to provoke me in a public forum in order to play me as the villain and humiliate me, you have belittled me, demeaned me, insulted my art, and down played my feelings in regards your actions: and this is just the last set of abuse you have done to me.
I told you had already made up your mind: you just didn't have the balls to come out and say it: you have a martyr complex along with your Narcissism.
Here is a sampling of some of the crap I endured listening to from you:
"WOE IS ME! Mommy and daddy took away my internet cause as a minor I was seeking older male furs to have romantic or sexual relationships!"
"Woe is me! Mommy and daddy won't let me go to cons cause the first one I went to, I lied to them about why I was going, I went on their dime so I could meet up with an older fur to have sex, but chickened out and only made out." Oh, sorry, "nibbled."
"Woe is me! I found someone almost as much as a prima donna as I; and I'm not putting out so he is getting more crazy!"
"Woe is me! I go to church!"
"WOE IS ME! LET THE WHOLE WORLD KNOW I GOT ME A SINUS INFECTION!" I got one too, didn't hear me complain about it?
Now you are seeking to openly discuss your sexual exploits yet again! You are sick and need help.
One should learn the facts before one comments. A list, a rather long list, of very rude behaviors was brought before the dear author of this journal; that was at the very end. This was a direct attack to cause provocation by picking the least grievance and making it seem to be the biggest.
Included were direct insults, and gossiping behind people's backs. Seek to find the reason why people do their actions before you applaud someone for "sticking up for themselves;" they might not be defending their dignity, merely saber rattling to gain sympathy and defend their right to be an asshole while making their victims look like the villains.
oh and i like your icon!
I take it you felt like messing with a poor bear's mind?
"WHY DIDNT YOU RESPOND. HELLO. HELLO!?"
Dammit people. :/
XD
>_>:;;;
Some people love to play the martyr as Neiro does; so when he is being an ass, he down plays some aspect of what he did to upset the other person, changes details, then declares to the world he is being persecuted to garner sympathy and attention. He is a classic Narcissist.
For every jerk who aggravates and bothers an innocent artist, there is a jerk of an artist who harangues and demeans innocent watchers. And for everyone who is an ass to people on the net, there is an entry in his journal ass to why everyone else is an ass to him.
The joys of the net: everyone is the innocent victim and their drama is of greater importance then everything else in the world.
Ironically enough, you encourage it. :U
I have stopped watching this account, blocked his IM, blocked his email, stopped responding to his post/replies, and I will avoid him as much as physically possible in the future. If Niero is upset at all, it is because someone dared to declare themselves better then to deserve his abuse.
I fear that he will soon post more journals of this like soon, and that soon trollers will be encouraged by Niero, either directly or indirectly, and I will be facing the fallout from this stupidity for a while.
It has earned my respect.
And stuff.
and since I know you are to stuck up to realize this, I'm going to spell it out:
You never cease to amaze me in negative and bad ways.
I perish to think what your poor man has to go through. If you treat someone whom you can't speak face to face with or lay your hands on I perish to think what abuses you put him through.
But some people are gluttons for punishment: me I am about to go on a diet.
You cannot love someone whom you seek to repeatedly abuse and degrade without provocation: no one can...
I will analyze people whom I know; Neiro is a classic Narcissist. It is a mental disorder and I do not fault people for those: only when they refuse to work on their issues and demand to continue in belligerent courses of action.
with dignity, though.
I am going on a diet from abuse RR: you have so far insulted me directly, gossiped about me, sought to provoke me in a public forum in order to play me as the villain and humiliate me, you have belittled me, demeaned me, insulted my art, and down played my feelings in regards your actions: and this is just the last set of abuse you have done to me.
I told you had already made up your mind: you just didn't have the balls to come out and say it: you have a martyr complex along with your Narcissism.
Here is a sampling of some of the crap I endured listening to from you:
"WOE IS ME! Mommy and daddy took away my internet cause as a minor I was seeking older male furs to have romantic or sexual relationships!"
"Woe is me! Mommy and daddy won't let me go to cons cause the first one I went to, I lied to them about why I was going, I went on their dime so I could meet up with an older fur to have sex, but chickened out and only made out." Oh, sorry, "nibbled."
"Woe is me! I found someone almost as much as a prima donna as I; and I'm not putting out so he is getting more crazy!"
"Woe is me! I go to church!"
"WOE IS ME! LET THE WHOLE WORLD KNOW I GOT ME A SINUS INFECTION!" I got one too, didn't hear me complain about it?
Now you are seeking to openly discuss your sexual exploits yet again! You are sick and need help.
Included were direct insults, and gossiping behind people's backs. Seek to find the reason why people do their actions before you applaud someone for "sticking up for themselves;" they might not be defending their dignity, merely saber rattling to gain sympathy and defend their right to be an asshole while making their victims look like the villains.