http://www.okcupid.com/tests/take?t.....12663497470889 is the place to go. Though I don't find it 100% correct, I find it quite true in many aspects. I'll say where.

4- the Individualist

Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.



How to Get Along with Me

• Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me. (Though I do like them, I prefer not to be the center of ego-stroking attention.)

• Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself. (This is true.)

• Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision. (You don't HAVE to. XD)

• Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little. (You can see this in certain journals of mine.)

• Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting! (Actually, I'd prefer you do tell me where I should stop.)



What I Like About Being a FOUR (All true.)

• my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level

• my ability to establish warm connections with people

• admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life

• my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor

• being unique and being seen as unique by others

• having aesthetic sensibilities

• being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me



What's Hard About Being a FOUR (This whole section is true about me.)

• experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair

• feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved

• feeling guilty when I disappoint people

• feeling hurt or attacked when someone misunderstands me

• expecting too much from myself and life

• fearing being abandoned

• obsessing over resentments

• longing for what I don't have



FOURs as Children Often (True for the most part.)

• have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games

• are very sensitive

• feel that they don't fit in

• believe they are missing something that other people have

• attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.

• become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood (Actually, I seek to correct the misunderstanding in an appropriate manner.)

• feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce) (I can feel that way.)



FOURs as Parents (Of course I'm not here yet. Although I do help kids, depending, which is often at get togethers like parties. :P )

• help their children become who they really are

• support their children's creativity and originality

• are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings

• are sometimes overly critical or overly protective

• are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed