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15 years ago
My mate and I have been dealing with drama from two ex-friends lately. Kage and I live in a two bedroom apartment and we have been looking ffor roommates. Well two of our really good friends said they would move in with us. Than they started dating...and then when the guy was moved in, the girl said she was no moving up here from Salem, and he said tough toe nails and he moves out not even a month after moving in.
Kage is mad, i was too, but he has a bigger temper than i do. And he gave them the cold shoulder. They didnt think he should be mad so they kept bugging him and that just made he even more upset. Both parties said some nasty thing. But the chick put up a picture of kage that was not nice at all, he told them to take it down, and the shit got deeper.
Than! as though that was not enough, Some jerk starts talking to kage about how he is going to end him if he touches his "family" and I send a text to this girl asking her to keep her pack out of it and she tries to tell ME! that kage dose not Love me and all this shit. And, on top of all of that, she post the texts of me getting mad about that on FA.
She didnt put up what she said, and I called her a fucking drama queen. but really, all this because she didnt like kage being mad at her. Well i hope she chokes on it.
GOD! shit like this makes me want to leave the furry lifestyle.
Kage is mad, i was too, but he has a bigger temper than i do. And he gave them the cold shoulder. They didnt think he should be mad so they kept bugging him and that just made he even more upset. Both parties said some nasty thing. But the chick put up a picture of kage that was not nice at all, he told them to take it down, and the shit got deeper.
Than! as though that was not enough, Some jerk starts talking to kage about how he is going to end him if he touches his "family" and I send a text to this girl asking her to keep her pack out of it and she tries to tell ME! that kage dose not Love me and all this shit. And, on top of all of that, she post the texts of me getting mad about that on FA.
She didnt put up what she said, and I called her a fucking drama queen. but really, all this because she didnt like kage being mad at her. Well i hope she chokes on it.
GOD! shit like this makes me want to leave the furry lifestyle.
I had no idea shit went down. Man, that sucks balls.
I fully understand why Kage is upset. I don't agree with it but I understand. But that being said it is not a reason to start threatening people. The mature thing to do would be to just end the friendship and each couple go their seperate ways. But Kage is hurt and wants revenge or whatever. And well that on top of the fact that he already hates the world makes for an unstable person.
You are protecting him as his mate which is your right. But it is also my right to protect those close to me. But thank you for calling me a jerk before you heard the whole story. Should you want the real story I can send you the convo any time. You will see how unstable your mate is right now.
I truly wish you both well. I'm sorry things did not work out for you but in my opinion if he really thought of Chris and Smurf as true friends then he should have been happy for them finding each other instead of being angry that he lost roommates.
Be mad. Be unhappy. Hate them. That's your right. You don't even have to have a reason. But what you do not have the right to do is threaten people. You don't have the right to say you will harm them or their property. Free speech does not cover that.
Your reasons for being hateful are your own. But let your feelings be your feelings and don't try to make them physical. That's when I have to step in. It's what I do. I live my life kicking some sense into bullies who try to put fear into others. Well guess what. I have no fear for people like that. And I don't back down. Better to die saving my friends and family than in a bed as an old man.
Your words don't hurt me. And I know you are upset. But let it go Kage. Just let them go. Go your seperate ways and take the energy you are spending on being mad and instead live your life. Find happiness. We all live through crap. Lord knows I am going through my own now too but it always can get better.
You want to vent then go for it. You have my YIM and my phone number. Use it any time. On my part I will ask Smurf and Chris to leave you be as well.
*gives warm rabbit hugs to ALL of you*
I don't like seeing my friends fight each other =(
I know you all enough to realize that none of you want to cause pain. It is obvious that you all feel hurt, mistakes must have been made but, cool off for a bit and try to come back to each other with forgiveness and understanding. Thats all you can really do when shit gets this out of hand.
And thanks to her, and the way chris has been acting though this whole thing, I can no longer call them friends.
And Zavian, I did read the true story, I read your ims to him. You did too say you would end him and i am not ok with that. You came in very hostile and he was hostile back. He had every right to be angry. He liked you too, and you pounce on him for something that was truely none of your business. And honestly, its up to him if he wants to pester chris and smurfy. They have betrayed him, in his eyes, and now in mine by dragging it onto the internet.