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15 years ago
I'm tired of being such a huge burden to everyone. And before anyone replies with "No, you're not", I'd like to state for the record that yes, I am.
Things come up in life that you need to ask someone to help you with. Something that person has sufficient skills to fix the problem that you don't. Normally, you know that even though you couldn't solve that issue on your own, there's skills and whatnot that you have that can "pay back" the help that someone else gave you.
I lack these "skills and whatnot". I've gone through an entire list of things that I'm actually able to do, but with each one, I can think of at least 20 people that can do the exact some thing, only infinitely better than I ever can. So nobody will come to me for help, when they've got all these other people that can get it done right, or at least a whole lot better. And when things go wrong while I'm being helped, it's not-so-subtly implied that it's my fault that things aren't going right, I never should have asked for any help, and I should feel horrible that I did anyway.
I know that there's a lot of people who would rather have me go away and never bother them again. And I'm getting to the point that I'll prolly end up doing just that. It's about the only thing I can do that can make someone else happy. Relationships of any kind involve give and take, and I have nothing else to give other than just leaving and not being there anymore.
~Kyetsu
Things come up in life that you need to ask someone to help you with. Something that person has sufficient skills to fix the problem that you don't. Normally, you know that even though you couldn't solve that issue on your own, there's skills and whatnot that you have that can "pay back" the help that someone else gave you.
I lack these "skills and whatnot". I've gone through an entire list of things that I'm actually able to do, but with each one, I can think of at least 20 people that can do the exact some thing, only infinitely better than I ever can. So nobody will come to me for help, when they've got all these other people that can get it done right, or at least a whole lot better. And when things go wrong while I'm being helped, it's not-so-subtly implied that it's my fault that things aren't going right, I never should have asked for any help, and I should feel horrible that I did anyway.
I know that there's a lot of people who would rather have me go away and never bother them again. And I'm getting to the point that I'll prolly end up doing just that. It's about the only thing I can do that can make someone else happy. Relationships of any kind involve give and take, and I have nothing else to give other than just leaving and not being there anymore.
~Kyetsu
