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Truth hurts...
15 years ago
After watching a show and a few movies that had babies in them, it hit me: Im never going to see my first child...my first baby girl. For those who dont know: about 4ish months ago, my fiance left me (hence why shes my ex-fiance), the night she left me was the night her ex came back from Iraq, coincidence? The following weekend
> THEY get married! Oh...and heres the best part: shes still pregnant with my little girl (shes due in December).
Now that they are married and live in another state which has a law stating that if you are married to the mother at the time of birth, you are automatically the father...bullshit, right? Its good and bad for me...the good part is I dont have to pay child support...the bad part is that I will never see MY first child. I dont even know why she left; I had a good-paying job ($1200 a month for being a Sprint Technical Support Specialist), I loved her, took care of her when she needed it the most, and most of all: she didnt feel alone...she actually said that to my face.
Sorry for ranting...but I had to get this out. Joker already knows about it...hell...its the reason why I cant sleep.
> THEY get married! Oh...and heres the best part: shes still pregnant with my little girl (shes due in December).
Now that they are married and live in another state which has a law stating that if you are married to the mother at the time of birth, you are automatically the father...bullshit, right? Its good and bad for me...the good part is I dont have to pay child support...the bad part is that I will never see MY first child. I dont even know why she left; I had a good-paying job ($1200 a month for being a Sprint Technical Support Specialist), I loved her, took care of her when she needed it the most, and most of all: she didnt feel alone...she actually said that to my face.
Sorry for ranting...but I had to get this out. Joker already knows about it...hell...its the reason why I cant sleep.
It pains me to read something like this, being someone who wants a child one day with my fiance...Why are so many women just... Ah...never mind. I'm slightly sexist, to my own sex. :| I don't want to offend you...
Either way... I hope to God you see your daughter when she is born, and many times after that. I hope this all gets resolved for you...
Besides, I bet you could present this in court and win, because this sounds all rather fishy. Sounds like a traditional 'V-girl' ...well, in a sense. Not completely like a 'v-girl' ... Still, it's wrong... And especially in the state of texas, I'm sure you could fight hard in court for these types of matters.
Paying for the baby if you did win would indeed be difficult but maybe if you still haven't found a job you could find some help and support. I'm not completely in the know of all those financial and law issues, but you'd figure this could be resolved, especially in your case.
Well, I hope you see her...and I hope it's a nice holiday season for you.