It bothers me (sort of rant type thing)
15 years ago
General
That people in the furry fandom don't know how to have a conflict behind closed doors, i mean ive had my share of drama and spread it a few times (im 19 and still learning how not to act like it) but im just sick and tired of furs talking shit about people in public for all to see...
One place thats been driving me up a wall is the Business forums of Wild Nights, Its like no one can talk about someone to their face without draging them through the mud. I really want to be involved in that con but its like every 3 weeks someone starts shit with someone else again so im afraid to...
I just wish people would learn to grow some balls and talk to a person privately instead of doing it in public so all your friends back you up and make you feel better.
Btw im only using the wild nights drama as an example..
ive been watching all kinds of shit... Blazger, E621 and other various other "so and so said that about so and so" drama.... its freaking crazy
I love the fandom and FA but im tired of watching people 10 years older then me acting like they are in highschool...
As a side note none of this rant has been directed at any one person in particular, if i had a problem with anyone they would know it.
I have been working hard to overcome the drama and crap that has happened to me or ive caused in the past. Me and
alucard210 are even on pretty good speaking terms now and working on rebuilding a friendship,
same with
jeffy me and him are good friends again as well
If i can move on from how i used to be in my earlier days in the fandom then furs 10 or 15 years older should already be there... Everyone has conflicts now and then but most people know how to talk them out or confide in one or 2 close friends.... from what ive seen most of the fandom still needs to learn this skill...
One place thats been driving me up a wall is the Business forums of Wild Nights, Its like no one can talk about someone to their face without draging them through the mud. I really want to be involved in that con but its like every 3 weeks someone starts shit with someone else again so im afraid to...
I just wish people would learn to grow some balls and talk to a person privately instead of doing it in public so all your friends back you up and make you feel better.
Btw im only using the wild nights drama as an example..
ive been watching all kinds of shit... Blazger, E621 and other various other "so and so said that about so and so" drama.... its freaking crazy
I love the fandom and FA but im tired of watching people 10 years older then me acting like they are in highschool...
As a side note none of this rant has been directed at any one person in particular, if i had a problem with anyone they would know it.
I have been working hard to overcome the drama and crap that has happened to me or ive caused in the past. Me and
alucard210 are even on pretty good speaking terms now and working on rebuilding a friendship,same with
jeffy me and him are good friends again as wellIf i can move on from how i used to be in my earlier days in the fandom then furs 10 or 15 years older should already be there... Everyone has conflicts now and then but most people know how to talk them out or confide in one or 2 close friends.... from what ive seen most of the fandom still needs to learn this skill...
FA+

Good to see things are getting better with you, though. I've recently had my share of bad times in life, though I'm almost out of the recovery phase at this point. :)