Damn. *hug*

Yeah, pretty much. *hug*

It was quite an odd experience to find him lying cold on the floor, eyes open and glassy.

I guess that's pretty much all there is to say on the matter. You pretty much knew how I felt about him I think.

For me the hardest part had been trying to console my mom and grandma and informing about 1/3 of the people that know at this point.

Depending on your relationship with your father, I either offer my condolences and hope the loss isn't terribly rough on you and your family; or I say good riddance (which would be the case if it was my biological father, hence why I add that in)

Really, it was pretty much the latter, though some will still miss him pretty bad I think. Bonds over time and such.

But even those who miss him can see bright sides and are glad he's at peace and no longer living the way he was.

It's pretty fucked up and sad to think that he's probably the person I despised most in this world, isn't it? But... that doesn't change the way I feel...

Not really know cause I pretty much feel the same about my own biological. Those that I catch flack from for thinking of this are the ones who didn't seem to notice the awful things he did to my family. If you're sad, then you're sad, I don't blame ya, but don't get angry at those who had nothing but bad times with them.

Yeah, pretty much. Like I said, even the really sad ones couldn't really say there were no up sides.

So sorry for your family's loss, I hope everything gets straightened out quickly.

I think things have gone as well as can be expected. My mom, my sister, and especially my grandma took it pretty hard but we all knew it was coming the way he treated his body.

We've already pretty much figured out how to handle what posessions he had, funeral costs/arangements, and so on

Geez, that's never easy, I hope your family heals in time.

I think some of us will have a much easier time with it than others. But hopefully those taking it hard will adjust as comfortably as possible.

Thanks for your support.

No problem.