It's something I don't understand and not quite sure I want too. I love my pup, but if I lose him over something like that. I'm a furry and I like to get down with them. But this weird "family" thing I just don't get. I'd rather just have really good friends, some better than others. I this is the difference in furs that I've been looking for. Some want to live the lifestyle, others like to dabble. I'd prefer to dabble. Ok my ranting is over.