Leaving Home
15 years ago
General
Well I thought this day would never come but it has. I have decided that it is time for me to move out of my parents house and move out. Mainly for those who know me know what kind of environment I live in. Its not the most pleasant of environments but about 50% of the time it is Great but the other times its not so Great. Things have Elevated to a Level of not just emotional abuse but Physical too. I know that every one that knows me Knows that i'm a sweetheart and would never hurt any one unless they are trying to kill me. But what happened on Sunday was something that I will make sure never happens again. My dad had been yelling at me all day or morning about how I never do anything around the house to help which sometimes is true but usaly i do them every one makes mistakes. But back to what happened so i get out of the bath room and I hear a whimpering, but at the time i did not know it was not Spotty crying rather than my mother but me being the person that always wants sense from chaos I tried to calm my Step dad down by asking him nicely to please calm down. He completely Ignores me and continues to scream and yell at me. I ask him again to please calm down, then he decides that he wants to get in my face so he approach me with extreme aggression and me trying to defend my self i put my hand on his chest not hard but Gently keeping him from getting any closer to me. My step dad immediately hits me in the face well Slaps me but He hit me with the ball of his hand against my Jaw joint making me drop my hand and step back. Then I ask him why did you Hit me, He reply's with "I cant expect what you will do to me I was just defending my self, of course I will admit i have punched him in the face in the past but Lets face it I don't like when people call me names or talk down to me to the point where I have no self esteem any more. well I cant exactly show you what has gone on in the past but when someone like that does things to hurt you and your emotions on purpose and then tries to Grab you forcing you to look them in the eyes and take every word they say I think you would punch someone too if they did that. But anyways I'm basicly saying that I have had enough of the Abuse and enough of being treated like a Child by someone who is claiming to be my parent when i'm 22 years old. Ripner, Ratchet, Demise, leafpup and spotty all know about this and I feel its time that every one else did too. I'm tired of waiting in the shadows like a scared Dog. so yea I really don't intend on moving back in, and I my apologies to any one that has ever had to experience this.
So Any one that reads this Please Voice your Opinion about it if you think this is a good idea or not and Why...... Any opinion is accepted as long is your using common sense and not being a complete Idiot then you are allowed lol
So Any one that reads this Please Voice your Opinion about it if you think this is a good idea or not and Why...... Any opinion is accepted as long is your using common sense and not being a complete Idiot then you are allowed lol
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Also, you're an adult. Your step-father is an adult. You know what happens when one adult hits another for no reason? Court happens. If you can, look into pressing assault charges on him. God help that man if I ever meet him face-to-face, because I WILL give him a taste of his own medicine. Tenfold. No one deserves to go through what you have. That man needs a 2x4 of common sense applied to his head.
Hang in there, mate. I wish you luck.
Also, I hope you're looking forward to the Halloween party!