is she using it like black mail?

no

well then for the most part you should be ok. It sucks though that she invaded your privacy

that's whats upsetting me the most, and that she has a tendency to go blab things to people...

then you know eventually you might need to announce it before she does. Gossip spreads sometimes better if you spread it. Is your eviroment )school, work etc) is it biased against that kind of stuff.?

school/friends are totally fine with it and my cousin already knows, its just my parents and aunt and uncle, mostly my father and uncle im worried about although I'm probly being more dramatic about all this than I really should, its just im very paranoid and think the worst when it comes to this.

if your friends and some family already know ,then the worst has already passed. Cuse usually the problem is in were usually you hang around and since that is all kool...Well i cant say much for your dad. is he a MACHO man?

hes not a huge macho man but i'm more worried about being a disappointment to him

as long as you make him proud by doing what you love, go to college and be successful i am sure everything is all good.

wow i would've punched her if i were u but in my opinion i wouldnt care they'll find out sooner or later

I understand totally, my brother does this to me too, although he only found out I was a furry and not my sexual preferences, but personally I never hid the fact I was a furry. It infuriates me that people can't keep out of other peoples lives.

Hmm well it all depends on you and whether your ready to tell the Old man and his brother lol. What is your Father and Uncles views on Homosexuality? Have they openly expressed negativity towards it? And is your family a highly religious Christian family? Cause if you can be sure they have nothing against it and are not Christian then you should be fine. Cause the typical I live for god desires Christian family are known to exile there own flesh and blood in the name of god since the family member has obviously chosen the life of a sinner. Its happened to all of my gay friends from christian families which is sad, but it prompted them to obtain there own living ASAP so it had a positive outcome.


But really it all depends on how well you know your parents. I would play it safe and trust the sis to keep quiet so you can tell them when you don't have to live with them =P, but a lot of weight would be lifted off your shoulders if you relieved yourself of that secret.

nah we aren't super religious and my family is pretty cool, i don't think my dad will hate me or anything its just that i have issues where i feel i'm a let down or something to him, ( i have a bunch of non sense self hate issues about being gay) and as for my uncle im really not sure. When everyone does know i'm sure it wont be as bad as i'm thinking it will be.

Hmm well you gotta tell them sometime. There that last three and so for so good. Except your nosy sister =P, but hey I would have considered that a lucky break xD. You were relieved of telling her yourself so yay!! I said nothing!

FUCK JESSICA! UGH!!!!
But for the most part you should be fine. Damn you shouldve told me last night when I IM'd you.
As much as you doubt it, this might be a good thing, the worst is that she just teases you about... I think she had a GOOD hunch anyways, this just sorta sealed the deal.

Don't take it so hard.