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Should I tell my mom yet or wait!
15 years ago
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Ok. so me and my mom dont realy have a realationship. I kinda pulled my self away from my family sometime after my dad died. (rather not get in to full details of how the relationship fell apart)
And when I had the first chance to live somewhere else i did and lied to my mom saying i was staying at a "girl friends" house. But infact it was my 3rd BFs place I stayed with for 10 months. Then after we broke up, i found other ppl who didnt mind me staying with them, sleeping where every i was aloud.
So, now my problem is that I am staying at my current Bfs place and have been staying their for 3 to 5 days a week their with him, and coming into town and staying at my moms while i am going to collage. Me and my mom are also in the same class in collage. We are getting our GED together.
Anyways, getting off topic as always lol.
When I am at my moms place, all I do is sit around or watch T.V. or play my X-box. We dont talk very much or if we do its most likely an argument or small talk. I dont know much about her and she dosent know the real me. Durring Easter weekend this year (2010) we took a week and visited some of my dads side of the family, and durring the whole 6 hr dive we just sat their, not even talking. Every now and then i would ask... "So, is their anything would would like to talk about?"
She replyed everytime..."Nope" And in my head im like "OMG she dont realy care, or she just dosent want to know"
So, one night we spent a night at one of her friends place and we both slept on the pull out bed in the spare living room, and this gave me the thought of.. "hey maybe girl talk before bed, maybe she would like to talk abit" So i say to her "what are your thoughts on me dating older guys?" She then said "depends on how old" So i rack my brian and think for a sec. "Well, hes mind 30's"
Mom said "Well, i guess thats alright" then we both dropped the convo and went to bed and that was the only time we talked about that.
So here i am again wanting to talk to my mom again about it. but the problem is that my BF is not in his late 30's but in his mid 40's. I dont know my mom that well and dont know how she will react and i hope she know i love him because i have been with him for almost 2 years now and want to have a good relationship with my mom now and want to have no secrets anymore.. I keep talking to my mom about my "friend" all the time and i think she knows it a BF i have, but i never say his name.
So that is a bit of my problem right now and i dont know how to bring it up to my mom.
Any suggestions are warmly welcome
thanks for taking the time to read my huge journal entry
And when I had the first chance to live somewhere else i did and lied to my mom saying i was staying at a "girl friends" house. But infact it was my 3rd BFs place I stayed with for 10 months. Then after we broke up, i found other ppl who didnt mind me staying with them, sleeping where every i was aloud.
So, now my problem is that I am staying at my current Bfs place and have been staying their for 3 to 5 days a week their with him, and coming into town and staying at my moms while i am going to collage. Me and my mom are also in the same class in collage. We are getting our GED together.
Anyways, getting off topic as always lol.
When I am at my moms place, all I do is sit around or watch T.V. or play my X-box. We dont talk very much or if we do its most likely an argument or small talk. I dont know much about her and she dosent know the real me. Durring Easter weekend this year (2010) we took a week and visited some of my dads side of the family, and durring the whole 6 hr dive we just sat their, not even talking. Every now and then i would ask... "So, is their anything would would like to talk about?"
She replyed everytime..."Nope" And in my head im like "OMG she dont realy care, or she just dosent want to know"
So, one night we spent a night at one of her friends place and we both slept on the pull out bed in the spare living room, and this gave me the thought of.. "hey maybe girl talk before bed, maybe she would like to talk abit" So i say to her "what are your thoughts on me dating older guys?" She then said "depends on how old" So i rack my brian and think for a sec. "Well, hes mind 30's"
Mom said "Well, i guess thats alright" then we both dropped the convo and went to bed and that was the only time we talked about that.
So here i am again wanting to talk to my mom again about it. but the problem is that my BF is not in his late 30's but in his mid 40's. I dont know my mom that well and dont know how she will react and i hope she know i love him because i have been with him for almost 2 years now and want to have a good relationship with my mom now and want to have no secrets anymore.. I keep talking to my mom about my "friend" all the time and i think she knows it a BF i have, but i never say his name.
So that is a bit of my problem right now and i dont know how to bring it up to my mom.
Any suggestions are warmly welcome
thanks for taking the time to read my huge journal entry
