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Massive Rant
15 years ago
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What is it with people today? In the past couple of weeks, I've had three people be complete and utter bitches to me. As most of you know, I've been busy out of my mind over the past two months. And as such, I'm not online anymore. Most of the people I call my friends are cool with that and understand. But some of you don't seem to get it.
I've had three people who have either posted repeated statuses, journals, tweets, etc bitching about how shit's going wrong in their lives. Great, I support that. Good to vent and all, right? But jesus christ, it's a public, avanue, and NOT EVERYONE IS GOING TO SEE IT. I miss a LOT of Journals, Statuses, and Tweets; and hell, the occasional Text or IM or two. DON'T TAKE IT THE FUCK PERSONALLY. Two people on FA, and one person on facebook HAVE recently. If you don't beleive I'm busy, you try running the finances for the biggest club on a college campus, in addition to working 20 hours a week, in addition to 18 hours of classes a week, in addition to homework that takes up next to every other waking hour.
In short, what I'm saying is that if you're a person that is going to get butthurt because I'm not responding to your passive-aggressive woe is me journals, then I have a message for you.
FUCK. OFF.
I don't want, nor need the drama. And It's not that I don't respond because I don't care, I do! I just don't notice the shit, or don't have physical time between sleep and life (it IS a thing, have you heard of it?) to read through every single one of the 100 - 200 journals that pop up every single time I log on. If you want me to talk to you, or want advice from me, I have a phone. And I have an IM. I am NOT stingy with them, for the love of GOD. Just ask! But please, seriously, don't get pissy when I don't respond to a journal detailing how bad your week has been going. You don't post those expecting to get sympathy from every single person you know; and if you do, you're RETARDED. I don't need the drama, I don't need the aggravation, especially during midterms week.
So if you're going to be like that, take me off whatever messengers and sites you have me on right now. Because being pissed at me over being absent when I can't control it is something I have just lost any and all tolerance for. Or even better, be direct! If you want me to have dialogue with you through your journals, and I'm not, TEXT ME AND ASK WHERE I AM. I don't lie about this shit people! Be direct! Is this an art that has been lost since technology came into existence? Is it that foreign of a concept? Please, put forth the effort if you want to keep in contact with me, because every little bit of my effort is being put into not flunking out of college/being able to afford college.
TL;DR: If you are gonna get pissed at me not responding to every single journal you post, go crawl in a hole. I want none of it.
I've had three people who have either posted repeated statuses, journals, tweets, etc bitching about how shit's going wrong in their lives. Great, I support that. Good to vent and all, right? But jesus christ, it's a public, avanue, and NOT EVERYONE IS GOING TO SEE IT. I miss a LOT of Journals, Statuses, and Tweets; and hell, the occasional Text or IM or two. DON'T TAKE IT THE FUCK PERSONALLY. Two people on FA, and one person on facebook HAVE recently. If you don't beleive I'm busy, you try running the finances for the biggest club on a college campus, in addition to working 20 hours a week, in addition to 18 hours of classes a week, in addition to homework that takes up next to every other waking hour.
In short, what I'm saying is that if you're a person that is going to get butthurt because I'm not responding to your passive-aggressive woe is me journals, then I have a message for you.
FUCK. OFF.
I don't want, nor need the drama. And It's not that I don't respond because I don't care, I do! I just don't notice the shit, or don't have physical time between sleep and life (it IS a thing, have you heard of it?) to read through every single one of the 100 - 200 journals that pop up every single time I log on. If you want me to talk to you, or want advice from me, I have a phone. And I have an IM. I am NOT stingy with them, for the love of GOD. Just ask! But please, seriously, don't get pissy when I don't respond to a journal detailing how bad your week has been going. You don't post those expecting to get sympathy from every single person you know; and if you do, you're RETARDED. I don't need the drama, I don't need the aggravation, especially during midterms week.
So if you're going to be like that, take me off whatever messengers and sites you have me on right now. Because being pissed at me over being absent when I can't control it is something I have just lost any and all tolerance for. Or even better, be direct! If you want me to have dialogue with you through your journals, and I'm not, TEXT ME AND ASK WHERE I AM. I don't lie about this shit people! Be direct! Is this an art that has been lost since technology came into existence? Is it that foreign of a concept? Please, put forth the effort if you want to keep in contact with me, because every little bit of my effort is being put into not flunking out of college/being able to afford college.
TL;DR: If you are gonna get pissed at me not responding to every single journal you post, go crawl in a hole. I want none of it.
Thanks man. I know, I just wanted to declare to anyone that I just want none of it.
Amen to that.
And no, I won't be butthurt if you don't respond to this general "thumbs up"... expecting a reply to every non-reply-worthy comment is also up there on the retard-o-meter in my books. :P