Is it safe to come out now?
15 years ago
General
Some of my friends know about this, and it's been a big strain on me for the past 2 weeks - I had (maybe still have) a sexual stalker.
2 Fridays ago, a stranger approached me in his car and gave me a letter, before driving away really fast. kinda suspicious, right? well his letter said he'd been watching me for 2 years and he wanted to do explicit sexual things to me.
Oh God....O_O
I Went right to the cops, but they couldn't file a report because I had to go to the station of the town the incident occurred at.
So, I didn't call him back (he left me his number) and at first I thought he took the hint, but 2 weeks later (this just happened a couple days ago at work), he started following me on foot, then in his car, shouting at me to come to him....thankfully, he didn't follow me inside, so I got the town police to come...finally got everything reported, and the police talked to him on the phone. I am praying to God he won't bother me anymore, if he does, I was told I can probably press charges.
I'm considerably less scared now, but the fear is still there. I'm just so grateful he didn't try to resort to kidnapping or anything, because the last I saw him, he sounded pretty ticked off at me for ignoring him. Even a small town can be dangerous, and I now carry pepper spray. ^^;
I'll call this a life lesson, to be aware of my surroundings, and to stay away from strangers....sometimes my kid-like innocent views get the best of me, it's easy for me to forget that there are people out there who will resort to violence and rape to get what they want, that some people will always be liars and manipulators...I still wish to think the best of everyone I meet in life, but I have to keep my wits about me as well, it seems.
Glad I've got my visit with
valorail coming up, and the trip to my first fur-con. I need it. XD
2 Fridays ago, a stranger approached me in his car and gave me a letter, before driving away really fast. kinda suspicious, right? well his letter said he'd been watching me for 2 years and he wanted to do explicit sexual things to me.
Oh God....O_O
I Went right to the cops, but they couldn't file a report because I had to go to the station of the town the incident occurred at.
So, I didn't call him back (he left me his number) and at first I thought he took the hint, but 2 weeks later (this just happened a couple days ago at work), he started following me on foot, then in his car, shouting at me to come to him....thankfully, he didn't follow me inside, so I got the town police to come...finally got everything reported, and the police talked to him on the phone. I am praying to God he won't bother me anymore, if he does, I was told I can probably press charges.
I'm considerably less scared now, but the fear is still there. I'm just so grateful he didn't try to resort to kidnapping or anything, because the last I saw him, he sounded pretty ticked off at me for ignoring him. Even a small town can be dangerous, and I now carry pepper spray. ^^;
I'll call this a life lesson, to be aware of my surroundings, and to stay away from strangers....sometimes my kid-like innocent views get the best of me, it's easy for me to forget that there are people out there who will resort to violence and rape to get what they want, that some people will always be liars and manipulators...I still wish to think the best of everyone I meet in life, but I have to keep my wits about me as well, it seems.
Glad I've got my visit with
valorail coming up, and the trip to my first fur-con. I need it. XD
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it was really scary, I'm really glad the police were there me. <3 I feel safer now. My coworkers are keeping an eye out for me, I have allot of nice friends at work. ^^
Glad you made it out okay.
....aaahhhhah,..I know, it's really not funny. It's actually killed my innocence a little. I don't say hi back to strangers anymore, now I just tense up and ignore them. :/