Trans-genders
15 years ago
OK, so there's so much stuff going around about LGBT lately, with the wonderful "It gets better" project going on, and the recent suicides by gay teens.
Considering that I'm gay, I'm obviously LGBT-friendly.
....or more specifically, I'm LGB friendly. Trans-genders just make me...uncomfortable. I can't wrap my brain around it. I can understand more effeminate males, and while they're not usually the kind of person I enjoy being around, it doesn't bother me. But cross-dressing, males "pretending" to be females, just irks me so much. I'm not entirely sure why. It just feels completely false and ingenuine.
Post-op transgenders, however, I do understand why they irritate the hell out of me. A man who's had an operation to become female is no more female than any other man - they're just a man with a horrifying flesh wound. Cutting off your penis and having a mutilated hole put in its place does not make you a woman. That any person would choose to mutilate their bodies to become something they are not, nor ever can be, just disgusts me
Does this make me intolerant? Does it make me a hypocrite?
Considering that I'm gay, I'm obviously LGBT-friendly.
....or more specifically, I'm LGB friendly. Trans-genders just make me...uncomfortable. I can't wrap my brain around it. I can understand more effeminate males, and while they're not usually the kind of person I enjoy being around, it doesn't bother me. But cross-dressing, males "pretending" to be females, just irks me so much. I'm not entirely sure why. It just feels completely false and ingenuine.
Post-op transgenders, however, I do understand why they irritate the hell out of me. A man who's had an operation to become female is no more female than any other man - they're just a man with a horrifying flesh wound. Cutting off your penis and having a mutilated hole put in its place does not make you a woman. That any person would choose to mutilate their bodies to become something they are not, nor ever can be, just disgusts me
Does this make me intolerant? Does it make me a hypocrite?
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Nevvil Wildman
So I agree with you if you can follow me XD
I would say that if you sat and thought really hard about the issue you would eventually find the bare bones of what irks you about it and maybe that would help you understand yourself and others a bit better.
Though I don't really feel I have much room to speak on the subject considering most of my clothes were bought from the mens section (I guess by definition I'm a cross-dresser). But in my opinion your fine Red you is no hippogryph *snicker snicker*