D'awww, remember the X and condoms. lawl :-P

Um, its a tad early for that. Besides I haven't shaved that extensively in a while... XD

Oh, honey, you need to come 'round more ...

Pasha! I miss you! When will I see you again??

It honestly took me a while to get where I am to be able to go out by myself to a gay bar. I needed time to accept myself for who I am, before I went out into the world. ^.^ But yeah, I need to get out more... >.>

10-4 ... just so you know you're welcome if you ever wanna come with us pervs ... we've been known to suit at the biker bar ... it's a hoot ...

Hehe, sounds like fun. I've almost got everything I need to start using Ca$h. I'll have to come join you guys sometime. ^.^

sweet! i havent been to the ones here since my gf n i broke up like 6 years ago...

There were a TON of ladies there tonight. I'd say they outnumbered the guys like 1.5 to 1. Then again it was pretty slow early on.

hehe...

didja go to one of the 2 in GR? they get busy on saturday nites...thats when we usually went

you mean one of the 3 in GR? Yes, I went to Rumors. They get busy on the weekdays too, but not till 11ish.

theres 3 here? i've only ever been to diversions n rumors...whats the 3rd one?

Apartment Lounge next to the Civic Theater.

ah...never been there

Neither have I XD

*giggles* well, u have more courage than i do...i've never been to a bar alone, gay or otherwise

It took me a REALLY long time just to be able to get to a point where I was ready to try this...

well, i think its awesome...i'd love to go back there n go dancin n stuff, but im still nervous about goin alone

Its not easy going alone, but it can be worth it. If you want to just dance, you'r probably better off bringing a friend or two.

yeah but i dont have any friends that live near me...they live in other states or the other side of this one

If a bunch of us go out, we'll let you know if you want to come along.

awesome! i'd like that

Congrats to ya :D

Thanks! ^.^

Which bar did you go to?

I checked out Rumors.

Oh that's a fun one, the people there are really nice too. :3 I'm glad you had a good experience.

Yeah the workers were extremely nice. Made me feel at home, despite being there for the first time.

Way to go, Cinder! Maybe one of these days I'll get to one. Just too damn shy to do more than nurse a drink and avoid eye contact if I'm in a bar with nobody there I know. :( Been to the Dunes in Douglas/Saugatuck on Halloween one time, but... ya, lol.

Thanks Nict! :3 I know what you mean, all I did the first hour was nurse a drink by myself. It was extremely slow though. That guy I met sat down next to me, and it only seemed natural to talk to him... actually, since he sat down next to me and every other bar stool was empty, it just seemed rude not to talk to him.

Like I said, I sat at home for two hours thinking about every reason not to go, and all of it was bull shit.