Interesting... i chat with someone and he sais "I wish i could be like you and Teddi." (Teddi = MStuarn of course)
and while i wait for an explanation for that i read a note stating: "Teddi and you are a good working couple, and i often think how good it must be to know what the other one really likes [...]"
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it's interesting from my point of view, it has been a really... REALLY tough year.... when it was december 2009 i planned 2010 being a great year, not as sucking as 2009, i wanted a raise, i wanted Teddi to find a jobb quickly, i wanted to buy a dog from the money for the raise, i wanted my own office at work, and i got a spourtscoupe that i loved...... instead i got fired, i had to sell my car, i never got around getting a dog, Teddi denied himself from every application or afford to find a job... In his defence: This is the hard look on the whole thing, i know he fought a lot about it, i know he cared, but even with his medicin he couldn't get himself to do it, it's not entierely his fault, it's a sickness and we're still working on it....

my point being? From the outside you really only know whats going on in a couples life when they break up, until then it may be from deep love to "nearly crash landing" everything and you won't notice a thing if the couple doesnt want to, of course you may notice some arguments, you may have one of them crying on your shoulder (that's mostly me, the crybaby), but not very much people will admit that they are about to break up as long as it's not decided, and that decision is most of the times made only shortly before it's actually done.

Another thing..... If you're wondering... yes Teddi will be online to chat with you sometimes again, just be patient and give him time, it's not that he doenst like you, he still has a hard time sorting his things out.

So summed up for those who know us: I am happy i can tell you it is going uphill again, we've been through some really rough times, mostly financial, wich sadly have a direct way of influencing my mood and my wellbeing. We've been without work before but this time it was way better than last time. By now we are on a level were i know when i better keep my mouth shut, or the other way around, we know most of the other one's kinks and flaws and can deal with them. And we talk about stuff, we say sorry when we hurt each other, we know what small things count if we need to cheer the other one up. (Like Marzipan *g*) ... or get the otherone horny 0:). Also the whole sex thing still needs work, but it's also going uphill there. Yes i know you pervs want to know more... but i won't tell you here. :P

So thanks for sticking around. And i am flattered and honored that 'so many' (It's more than those 2) people look at 'us' like that.

I hope we can stay living prove that furrycouples can work. :)
It's been 7 years by now.

Teddi, i love you. <3