maybe cause they just plainly dislike looking after them. some people just aint the type to have kids i know one day id only have 1 maybe 2 thats all.

I understand them being annoying... but if you raise them well...

On top of that... the idea of getting to the end of life and not being able to pass on what you've accomplished?

some just cant bring up children though. just aint good perents and they know it

So what about those who would make great parents but still pass up the chance? Just because they find kids annoying? Just because they're gay? Just because they're more focused on career? or are worried about the costs?

I guess those are reasons.. but I'm just curious how that overrides the base human desire to pass on what we know to our offspring

hey costs can be a big thing you dont want to bring up a kid in povidy.
carrerr well a kid needs a parent and the world is run arount money. some bosses are so tight. these ones tend to have late children though.. when they are the boss XD
well gay parents... in this world some pople are just asses and wont respect the gay perents. even though i think adopting is just cute.
the ones who find it annoying um well if they dont like kids they dont have to
plus if you look at the world population we are going to starve if we dont follow chinas lead.

I guess... I'm not looking for reasons why... more looking for how they suppress the normal desire to have kids?

wait your looking for a reason to surpress the desire to have a kid? why?

Long story that I don't want to go into on the boards...

nah nah ok dat is coolz. kinda sounds like ya want a kind but you gotta hold back for what ever reason. what ever it is im sure you could find a way around it.

Something like that... not sure how to get around it yet... it's a bit complicated...

youll work it out as i have with my troubles i thought id never clear my skull but one night i had a horrable sleep but i woke up clear.. but sore XD i gess i had a bad sleep cause i was thinking. any way it is working outfor me when i was in an endless pit im sure yours could too :3

Can hope... tho nothing's come to me and it's been awhile...

awhile? how long is awhile? me was a month and a half.

The last year lol

ouch... ah no biggy your still younge youll get it sorted.

Can hope :)

dont just hope try as well!

Don't worry. I am

This is the newest thing I'm trying

keep it up then. good things come to those who try with a good heart

so they say.... but the problem is having it out of reach in your current situation... but cant really change that situation... so gotta adapt instead of reaching

youll still get threw it. adapting can be a good thing

Not in every case... which is another part if this confusing line of thought

:/ well i dont know what else to say other then wish you well

lol... didn't mean to sound like a downer xP

Thanks! It'll work out one way or another ^^

Id like too one day, but somehow avoid the horrificness of bringing them up through infantism XD (whatever you call that stage) Maybe adoption or something..

But i think its wrong also to bring up a kid beyond the parents means like my family and end up having a trainwreck childhood. Id never bring kids into the world if i couldnt give them everything. Which i never likely will be able to as a proliteriate pleb XD, Which is a plausible reason, especially amongst people ive had similar conversations with.

I'd agree with smokey and you on that one...

One kid... mayyyybe two... but dont overdo it and stretch yourself... and spend all your energy bringing them up right.

But what about the people who can afford it? yet choose not to? I'm looking to understand how they overwrite that basic, human, need to build a family...