Is there a difference between being pussy whipped and staying out of your mates business? I mean, weather your mate wrong or right I feel like the best idea is just to stay out of it and try to calm down both parties. I heard from someone that not telling your mate to STFU when they have ideas and veiws is being pussy whipped.

If anything telling your mate to STFU whiles they're that pissed off is no better than beinng a dictator and an ass. Best thing to say is warn them not to say anything they would regret in the morning. Right?

I regret nothing I say and will not be sorry for any of it. I can admit hoping someones parents would die is cruel even for me but none of what I said will be taken back or regreted. I only say things when provoked meaning my statement was made to be permanent. I'm only editing my previous post because my mate requested it. It was not an order it is an understanding that I'm starting to sink to a level I promiced him I wouldnt.

Sorry hun for accidentally sucking you into this mess. Apparently furries like to cause relationship problems too. I have decided I am no longer your pet (apparently being your pet makes me a lesster being and being a dom myself I will not be considered as such.) I am your GF, friend and EQUAL. I will only be talked to in a reasonable matter and the word woman will only be used when we're joking.