Rant Ahead
15 years ago
Gotta love it when you get people who creep you out about relationships, or those who talk about things that would really creep out you and your partner.
Lemme explain.
You post a picture on fa/facebook/whatever, and people comment about how good you look/whatever, but then someone comes along..and takes the comments too far like "your cock is so nom nom" or "if only I could tap that" etc..things that you normally wouldn't hear in a talking situation. Now..to some yea sure it's cute/meant to be a compliment however..not everyone sees it as such. Not everyone wants to know how you feel about their bits K!
To me...personally (not pointing pawfingers at anyone) I just really don't think it's something that should be said to someone who is in a relationship..I mean c'mon would you really go up to the guy/girl in a real world situation and in public say "omg your cock is so nom nom" or would you be more mature and keep comments like that to yourself. HONESTLY...is it so hard to stop and think for a slight moment about what your comments could do to others who read them?
OH another thing..the whole "Man I wish my bf/gf was like you" really? Do you really dispise the mate you've chosen so much..that you are going to sit there and pretend/dream they are someone else? Wow..okay if that's how you wanna live your life then by all means go for it....just don't do it around me or with those I know who are very VERY happily in relationships. They don't want you..if they did...they would..ya know..be with you. Did you ever stop to think of what would happen should your mate find out that you think this way? Do you really think they'd be with you if they knew? How about being appreciative of what you have and be proud to be theirs.
In closing I guess all I can say is Think before ya comment..it could save you drama in the future.
Lemme explain.
You post a picture on fa/facebook/whatever, and people comment about how good you look/whatever, but then someone comes along..and takes the comments too far like "your cock is so nom nom" or "if only I could tap that" etc..things that you normally wouldn't hear in a talking situation. Now..to some yea sure it's cute/meant to be a compliment however..not everyone sees it as such. Not everyone wants to know how you feel about their bits K!
To me...personally (not pointing pawfingers at anyone) I just really don't think it's something that should be said to someone who is in a relationship..I mean c'mon would you really go up to the guy/girl in a real world situation and in public say "omg your cock is so nom nom" or would you be more mature and keep comments like that to yourself. HONESTLY...is it so hard to stop and think for a slight moment about what your comments could do to others who read them?
OH another thing..the whole "Man I wish my bf/gf was like you" really? Do you really dispise the mate you've chosen so much..that you are going to sit there and pretend/dream they are someone else? Wow..okay if that's how you wanna live your life then by all means go for it....just don't do it around me or with those I know who are very VERY happily in relationships. They don't want you..if they did...they would..ya know..be with you. Did you ever stop to think of what would happen should your mate find out that you think this way? Do you really think they'd be with you if they knew? How about being appreciative of what you have and be proud to be theirs.
In closing I guess all I can say is Think before ya comment..it could save you drama in the future.
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For example the person continually makes sexual advances towards another who is mated (the person making the comments also being mated). It's inappropriate from the start, but at the same time it makes the person making the comment look like a cheater towards his/her own mate. And to an even greater extent a whore.
Regardless if the person has the right to it isn't right to defend such actions because it supports drama, and the person defending such could also be put in the same category in a large groups mind. And to say that group of people are just plain dumb is a contradiction because committing the act of making comments as previously stated or even defending it simply because it's a "right" is in and of itself dumb.
Now before jumping to conclusions, I'm not name calling by any means. I'm simply saying the actions themselves are, and if you were to take it to a truly open to the public pole. I could almost guarantee you I'd be correct in saying the act, and defending the act is dumb, causes drama, and people plainly do not want drama.