I totaly agree!

Surprise someone with how much you love them~ In a non-stalker way~

I do not agree. I believe that if a couple decides to do something special on that day and they really love each other, then I have no problem with that.

Forcing people to buy a card for the sake of just leaving something on the other hand... well, it's a sign that couple isn't going to last more than a year longer.

It's not what the stores tell you to do; it's how you handle the holiday. I could say the same for almost any holiday. I think if enough people start to treat the holidays by their value roots rather than what was set in their heads by the outside influences of commericalism, then the holidays will seem more like a time to relax and celebrate rather than another chore.

I already spoke to you about this, and we both agree that it shouldn't be something forced on you.

The way we separate, is that one day of the year is dedicated to love - which is something you do more than once a year.

But like I said, I respect your opinion, and I won't try and change that.

I know you talked to me about this. I thought I should just state it here as well.

I am curious to ask though, why can't it be both? Why can't people celebrate love whenever they want and do something extra special Feb. 14th?

After all, if a couple really loves each other, then they're probably already doing that.

Because a couple spend time with each other in special ways all the time - not just exclusive on February 14th. Love isn't a once-a-year thing, it's something you do more often that!

But that's just how I feel.

I'm sure a lot of couples do the same. Ones who celebrate birthdays, anniverseries, or even just whenever, but still celebrate Feb. 14th

Nevertheless, I won't stop you if you want to shame those who just buy a card on Feb. 14th and just let it end there. They only enforce that only Feb. 14th thing you detest so much. We need more of the first and not of the latter!