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What love really is... post valentines day
14 years ago
As most people know, I'm definitely not a Valentine's Day person. In my opinion if you actually love someone, love is year around rather than one commercialized day. Sure get something that means something for your loved one on the day... but really love is a year around thing.
Love means...
... makings sandwiches but Volunteering to have the open faced sandwich when there are only 3 pieces of bread.
... letting them know that they don't have to go through things Alone.
... Letting them know what they mean to you incase they forget that they are worth something.
... Encouraging them and grounding them to make sure they can achieve their goals.
... Never running away then they need you.
... randomly getting or making their favorite Treats even if they don't notice.
... being Involved.
... sticking through things even when times are Not as satisfactory.
... always loving them even if you're just friends and accepting it and doing things without Expecting things in return.
... always Supporting them even if they don't support you as much.
Love comes in many forms whether it's lover to lover, parent to child, or friend to friend. And no matter how large or how small the gesture is... it still means something if it actually comes from the heart.
Love means...
... makings sandwiches but Volunteering to have the open faced sandwich when there are only 3 pieces of bread.
... letting them know that they don't have to go through things Alone.
... Letting them know what they mean to you incase they forget that they are worth something.
... Encouraging them and grounding them to make sure they can achieve their goals.
... Never running away then they need you.
... randomly getting or making their favorite Treats even if they don't notice.
... being Involved.
... sticking through things even when times are Not as satisfactory.
... always loving them even if you're just friends and accepting it and doing things without Expecting things in return.
... always Supporting them even if they don't support you as much.
Love comes in many forms whether it's lover to lover, parent to child, or friend to friend. And no matter how large or how small the gesture is... it still means something if it actually comes from the heart.
slashersivi
~slashersivi
*hug* :[
draconoskirojin
~draconoskirojin
OP
*huggles*... no need for sad faces... hehe
slashersivi
~slashersivi
It makes me sad to know that you are such a good, loving person but the person you love is just cold.
draconoskirojin
~draconoskirojin
OP
Ehhh we started things 6 years ago and we've been through a lot. The only real thing missing from my life now is intimacy, but like if I had to make a choice of either or I'd choose this. And then nothings really stopping me from doing something else and it's not like I don't like sex... I do but in the long term I rather just have someone I trust around. And a real "relationship" to me is merely a best friend that you have intimacy with so like that companionship portion is covered. We work well as a team. I'm just happy that I'm important enough to him that he still wants me to be a big part of his life.
LaurenRivers
~laurenrivers
With the open faced sandwich, wouldn't you just fold it in half? ;)
draconoskirojin
~draconoskirojin
OP
hahaha I just used a fork and knife... I know that sounds horrid but I have a strange habit of eating pizza with a knife and fork. It's just less mess...hehehe.
LaurenRivers
~laurenrivers
Hehe. :) I just use my hooves. ;)
