So if you did or didn't know I work at a movie theater. (this story revolves around it)

so a few weeks ago I was working vending and we have a trailer for the upcoming movie "African Cats" (IT LOOKS SOO GOOD I CAN'T WAIT) So I was like "I sooo can't wait for that movie" and a co-worker of mine turns to the person next to me and goes "you know who would enjoy that move "name here" would!!" ("name here" was a FORMER employee at the theater) other girl; "dude no, he would probably just sit in the back and jack off the whole time" They both preceded to laugh and this derogatory statement catches my attention so I turned around inquisitive for more info and she goes "well, he's what they call.. a furry.. you know what that is right" I nodded and they continued to poke fun at him, it got me all wound up and they kept making jokes till I just said something rude and walked away.

So fast forward a few weeks. My friend Ashley (also a theater employee) knows I'm a furry (due to lack of sobriety) and shes ok with it so I asked her about this person and apparently he's really cool.. so I found his Facebook....

So I want to message him, but this guy is apparently pretty open about it to his friends at least, which I'm not at all and I don't want everyone at the theater to know I am (because most of them I dislike) and I don't want them all talking about me.. it's none of their business anyways.

So I'm just perplexed on what to do. Is messaging a random person "I know your a furry" too weird. what if he tells them? what if he friends me and they all see we're friends now? wouldn't that be weird and suspicious? I would almost rather not talk to him ever than have everyone where I work know about this. I mean.. I have a suit and stuff so I'm like 10 steps above than the normal "I'm furry" so they'd probably make fun of me way worse than him and I'm totally not having that.

Also would it be better to message him on my furry Facebook or on my real Facebook (he has no furry friends) this is a question I'm worried about too because it would hide my identity at least for a while but "jefe husky and I work at the theatre".. wouldn't be too hard to figure out and he may ask someone at the theater about me and bam not only does now everyone know.. but they also have a link to who I am as a fur.

I'm so nervous about it, I want to meet him and friend him without anyone at the theater knowing.. but that's like basically impossible and my theater is like a gossip furpile.. everyone's gunna know. and I would really rather avoid that..

so I need some help. :)

Thanks

-J