After looking back on what happened with a friend the other night I realized where I fucked up at. I should had asked him ahead of time if I can come over to visit a friend that is traveling through and possibly stopping by his place. I said possible becasue I wasn't sure he was stopping by there at his place until it was too late. He told me no and I accepted it, he was then upset because he wasn't thinking I was wanting to come over and I should had told him I wanted to come over if the circumstances were right, much earlier. Therefore I was pretty much going behind his back.

If I knew what I was doing wrong then I should had stopped and didn't bother him anymore that night. I did get a message from the visiting friend and I sent a reply but couldn't find a place or a time to meet up at and I didn't want to disturb his travels too much. I ended up getting up late the next day because I was wounded up from the night before.

I was cool with the no request even though he didn't think I was OK with it. Probably because I was trying to figure out cutoff messages. I was just trying to calm him down but it I apparently made him more upset.

I don't know if there's a way to make it up to him or not about this situation. I am sorry about the whole deal. I look back at this and realized how I fucked up from it. I hope I can avoid this problem in the future. I am sorry for making my friend have to deal with this and I hope he can forgive me as I already forgave him. Maybe sometime we can make it up if he lets me.